Easy and Difficult

This is an interesting article whereby we can see that there are things so easy to be done and there are also thingstoo diffcult to for us to understand in this life.......

Nevertheless, these are facts of our daily life....

Therefore, live and enjoy every moment.......

Easy is to get a place in someone's address book.
Difficult is to get a place in someone's heart.

Easy is to judge the mistakes of others
Difficult is to recognize our own mistakes

Easy is to talk without thinking
Difficult is to refrain the tongue

Easy is to hurt someone who loves us
Difficult is to heal the wound
Easy is to forgive others
Difficult is to ask for forgiveness

Easy is to set rules
Difficult is to follow themEasy is to dream every night
Difficult is to fight for a dream

Easy is to admire a full moon
Difficult to see the other sideEasy is to stumble with a stone
Difficult is to get up

Easy is to enjoy life every day
Difficult to give its real valueEasy is to pray every night
Difficult is to find God in small things

Easy is to promise something to someone
Difficult is to fulfill that promiseEasy is to say we love
Difficult is to show it every day

Easy is to criticize others
Difficult is to improve oneself

Easy is to make mistakes
Difficult is to learn from them

Easy is to think about improving
Difficult is to stop thinking and put it into action

Easy is to think bad of othersDifficult is to give them the benefit of the doubt

Easy is to receive
Difficult is to give

Easy to read
Difficult to follow

Easy is to keep friendship with words
Difficult is to keep it with meaning

The language of friendship is not words, but in the demonstration.

The world is like a mirror, you see ? Smile, and your friends smile back.

 

Hadiah Malam Jumaat

Salam Jumaat buat para sahabatku sekalian.


**Sambil baca artikel, sambil dengar lagu ni, best wooo...Maher Zain "Open Your Eyes"

Post kali ini mungkin agak berlainan dari biasa sedikit. Tapi ia benar-benar menarik minat saya untuk mengetengahkan kisah ini kepada anda semua. Kemungkinan ada sebahagian dari kita yang telah membaca artikel ini...Tidak salah sekiranya membacanya lagi....Sesungguhnya manusia itu sering lupa. Dan pada waktu yang sama juga kita juga dituntut untuk megejar kebahagiaan dunia apatahlagi persediaan untuk bekalan ke akhirat. Daku sering lalai maka acapkali daku lalai maka kejutkanlah daku..sedarkanlah daku segera agar dapat kukembali kepada dunia yang nyata ini dan sekaligus mengukir bait-bait doa buat yang telah pergi.
Apalagi yang harusku layarkan agar mereka gembira tika itu?? maka sudah tentunya doa seorang insan yang kerdil ku hadihkan buat mereka pada setiap malam Jumaat..Mungkin dengan cara begini hatinya akan berasa tidak sabar menanti hari yang penuh kebahagiaan ini.

Pada suatu malam bertepatan malam Jumaat Salih Al Mazi pergi ke masjid jamik untuk mengerjakan solat subuh. Kebiasaannya ia berangkat awal sebelum masuk waktu subuh dan melalui sebuah pekuburan. Di situ Salih duduk sekejap sambil membaca apa-apa yang boleh mendatangkan pahala bagi ahli kubur memandangkan waktu subuh masih lama lagi. Tiba-tiba dia tertidur dan bermimpi melihat ahli-ahli kubur keluar beramai-ramai dari kubur masing-masing.

Mereka duduk dalam kumpulan-kumpulan sambil berbual-bual sesama mereka. Al Mazy ternampak seorang pemuda ahli kubur memakai baju kotor serta tidak berkumpul dengan ahli-ahli kubur yang lain. Dia duduk seorang diri di tepi kuburnya dengan wajah murung, gelisah kerana sedih.

Tidak berapa lama kemudian datang malaikat membawa beberapa talam yang ditutup dengan saputangan. Seolah-olah seperti cahaya yang gemerlapan.

Malaikat mendatangi para ahli kubur dengan membawa talam-talam itu, tiap seorang mengambil satu talam dan dibawanya masuk ke dalam kuburnya.

Semua ahli kubur mendapat satu talam seorang sehingga tinggallah si pemuda yang kelihatan sedih itu seorang diri tidak mendapat apa-apa.

Dengan perasaan yang sedih dan duka dia bangun dan masuk semula ke dalam kuburnya.
Tapi sebelum dia masuk Al Mazy yang bermimpi segera menahannya untuk bertanyakan keadaannya.

“Wahai hamba Allah ! Aku lihat engkau terlalu sedih mengapa?” tanya Salih Al Mazy. “Wahai Salih, adakah engkau lihat talam-talam yang dibawa masuk oleh malaikat sebentar tadi?” tanya pemuda itu. “Ya aku melihatnya. Tapi apa benda di dalam talam-talam itu ?” tanya Al Mazy lagi. Si pemuda menerangkan bahwa talam-talam itu berisi hadiah orang-orang yang masih hidup untuk orang-orang yang sudah mati yang terdiri dari pahala sedekah, bacaan ayat-ayat suci Al Quran dan doa. Hadiah-hadiah itu selalunya datang setiap malam Jumaat atau pada hari Jumaat. Si pemuda kemudian menerangkan tentang dirinya dengan panjang lebar.

Katanya dia ada seorang ibu yang masih hidup di alam dunia bahkan telah berkahwin dengan suami baru. Akibatnya dia lupa untuk bersedsekah untuk anaknya yang sudah meninggal dunia sehingga tidak ada lagi orang yang mengingati si pemuda. Maka sedihlah si pemuda setiap malam dan hari jumaat apabila melihat orang-orang lain menerima hadiah sedangkan dia seorang tidak menerimanya.

Al-Mazy sangat kasihan mendengarkan cerita si pemuda. lalu ia bertanya nama dan alamat ibunya ia dapat menyampaikan keadaan anaknya. Si pemuda menerangkan sifat2 ibunya. Kemudian Al Maizy terjaga. Pada sebelah paginya Al Maizy terus pergi mencari alamat ibu pemuda tersebut. Setelah mencari kesana kemari beliaupun berjumpa ibu sip pemuda tersebut lantas menceritakan perihal mimpinya.

Ibunya menangis mendengar keterangan Al maizy mengenai nasib anaknya yang merana di alam barzah. Kemudian ia berkata :”wahai salih ! Memang betul dia adalah anakku. Dialah belahan hatiku, dia keluar dari dalam perutku.

Dia membesar dengan minum susu dari dadaku dan ribaanku inilah tempat dia berbaring dan tidur ketika kecilnya.” Al Maizy turut sedih melihat keadaan ibu yang meratap dan menangis penuh penyesalan kerna tidak ingat untuk mendoakan anaknya selama ini.

“Kalau begitu saya mohon minta diri dahulu.” kata Al maizy lalu bangun meninggalkan wanita tersebut. Tatkala dia cuba untuk melangkah si ibu menahannya agar jangan pulang dahulu. Dia masuk kedalam biliknya lalu keluar dengan membawa wang sebanyak seribu dirham. “Wahai Salih, ambil wang ini dan sedekahkanlah untuk anakku, cahaya mataku. Insya Allah aku tidak akan melupakannya untuk berdoa dan bersedekah untukya selama aku masih hidup".

Salih Al Maizy mengambil wang itu disedekahkannya kepada fakir miskin sehingga tidak sesenpun dari seribu dirham itu yang tinggal. Dilakukannya semua itu sebagai memenuhi amanah yang diberi kepadanya oleh ibu pemuda tersebut.

Pada suatu malam Jumaat di belakang selepas itu, Al Maizy berangkat ke masjid jamik untuk solat jamaah. Dalam perjalanan sebagaimana biasa ia singgah di perkuburan. Di situlah ia terlena sekejap dan bermimpi melihat ahli-ahli kubur keluar dari kubur masing2. Si pemuda yang dulnya kelihatan sedih seorang diri kini keluar bersama-sama dengan memakai pakaian putih yang cantik serta mukanya kelihatan sangat gumbira. Pemuda tersebut mendekati Salih Al Maizy seraya berkata ,

“Wahai tuan Salih, aku ucapkan terima kasih kepadamu. Semoga Allah membalas kebaikanmu itu."

” “Hadiah dari ibuku telah ku terima pada hari jumaat.” katanya lagi. “Eh, Engkau boleh mengetahui hari Jumaat ?” tanya Al Maizy.
“Ya, Tahu.” “Apa tandanya ?” “Jika burung-burung di udara berkicau dan berkata “Selamat selamat pada hari yang baik ini, yakni hari Jumaat.”
Salih Al Maizy terjaga dari tidurnya. Ia cuba mengingati mimpinya dan  merasa gembira kerana sipemuda telah mendapat rahmat dari Allah disebabkan sedekah dan doa dari ibunya.

Jadi, renung-renungkan lah.....

Malam Jumaat adalah malam segala-gala malam....sedekahlah surah Yassin kepada arwah-arwah yang tersayang yang telah meninggalkan kita semua di pentas alam yang sementara ini....Adalah dalam kerugian kepada muslimin dan muslimat yang tidak tahu membaca ayat-ayat Quran terutama surah Yassin....sekurang-kurangnya kita yang hidup ini dapat membantu mereka-mereka yang telah tiada di sisi kita sekarang ini...

"Successful people think differently than unsuccessful people"

"Ungkapan ini berusaha menjelaskan bahawa perbezaan utama antara orang yang berjaya dan orang yang gagal adalah pada cara mereka berfikir. Mereka yang berjaya adalah mereka yang
selalu menggunakan kekuatan berfikir untuk terus memperbaiki hidupnya sehingga lebih baik.

Orang-orang yang berjaya ini adalah mereka yang memiliki cara
berfikir positif. Cara berfikir orang yang berjaya adalah:

Big picture thinking bukan small thinking
Cara berfikir ini menjadikan mereka terus belajar, banyak
mendengar dan terfokus sehingga minda mereka menjadi luas.

Focused thinking bukan scattered thinking
Sehingga dapat menghemat waktu dan energy, rintangan dan
halangan dapat mereka atasi.

Creative thinking bukan restrictive thinking
Proses berfikir kreatif ini meliputi: think-collect-create-correct-
connect.

Realistic thinking bukan fantasy thinking
Memungkinkan mereka meminimalkan risiko, ada target & plan,
security, sebagai catalyst dan memiliki Kredibiliti.

Strategic thinking bukan random thinking
Sehingga simplifies, customize, anticipation, reduce error and
influence other; dapat dilakukan.

Possibility thinking bukan limited thinking
Mereka dapat berfikir bebas dan menemukan solution bagi
situasi yang dihadapi.

Reflective thinking bukan impulsive thinking
Memungkinkan mereka memiliki integriti clarify big picture,
confident decision making.

Innovative thinking bukan popular thinking
Menghindari cara berfikir yang awam untuk meraih sesuatu
yang lebih baik.

Shared thinking bukan solo thinking
Berkongsi pemikiran dengan orang lain untuk mendapatkan hasil
yang lebih baik.

Unselfish thinking bukan selfish thinking
Memungkinkan mereka bekerjasama dengan pemikiran orang
lain.

Bottom line thinking bukan wishful thinking
Berfokus pada hasil sehingga dapat meraih hasil berdasarkan
potensi pemikiran yang dimiliki.

So, the moral of this presentation is that all of us should think like a successful person think...eventhough you are not successful yet....
Therefore, work extra hard, work dilligently, fully committed with your job or your studies coz these will lead you to the stairway in reaching success....Set your goals and determine your own motivation.....When we do the best we can, we never know what miracle is wrought in our life, or in the life of another....

"DON'T WAIT FOR YOUR SHIP TO COME IN : SWIM OUT TO IT"

"HAPPY READING"

The Beauties of Friendship

"A Friend" The first person who comes in when the whole world has gone out.
A bank or credit on which we can draw supplies of confidence, counsel, sympathy, help and love.
One who combines for you alike the pleasures and benefits of society and solitude.
A jewel whose lustre the strong acids of poverty and misfortune cannot dim.
One who multiplies joys, divides griefs, and whose honesty is inviolable.
One who loves the truth and you, and will tell the truth inspite of you.
The triple alliance of the three great powers, Love, Sympathy, and Help.
A watch which beats true for all time, and never "runs down."
A permanent fortification when one's affairs are in a state of siege.
One who to himself is true, and therefore must be so to you.
A balancing pole to him who walks across the tight rope of life.
The link in life's long chain that bears the greatest strain.
A harbor of refuge from the stormy waves of adversity.
One who considers my need before my deserving.
The jewel that shines brightest in the darkness.
A stimulant to the nobler side of our nature.
A star of hope in the clouds of adversity.
A diamond in the ring of aquaintance.
A volume of sympathy bond in cloth.
Friendship-one soul in two bodies.
An insurance against misanthropy.
One truer to me than I am myself.
One who understands our silence.
A link of gold in the chain of life.
The essence of pure devotion.
The sunshine of calamity.
A second right hand.





Have a pleasant nite......

.....sWeEt DrEaMs...

Need and Greed.....enjoy reading it...

NEED & GREED
This one makes so much sense...
A boat docked in a tiny Mexican fishing village.

A tourist complimented the local fishermen
on the quality of their fish and asked
how long it took him to catch them.

"Not very long." they answered in unison.

"Why didn't you stay out longer and catch more?"

The fishermen explained that their small catches were
sufficient to meet their needs and those of their families.

"But what do you do with the rest of your time?"
"We sleep late, fish a little, play with our children,
and take siestas with our wives.
In the evenings, we go into the village to see our friends, have a few drinks, play the guitar, and sing a few songs.

We have a full life."

The tourist interrupted, "I have an MBA from Harvard and I can help you!
You should start by fishing longer every day.
You can then sell the extra fish you catch.
With the extra revenue, you can buy a bigger boat."

"And after that?"
"With the extra money the larger boat will bring,
you can buy a second one and a third one
and so on until you have an entire fleet of trawlers.
Instead of selling your fish to a middle man,
you can then negotiate directly with the processing plants
and maybe even open your own plant.
You can then leave this little village and move to   Mexico City , Los Angeles , or even   New York City !

 

From there you can direct your huge new enterprise."

"How long would that take?"

"Twenty, perhaps twenty-five years." replied the tourist.

"And after that?"

"Afterwards? Well my friend, that's when it gets really interesting, " answered the tourist, laughing. "When your business gets really big, you can start buying and selling stocks and make millions!"   

"Millions? Really? And after that?" asked the fishermen.

"After that you'll be able to retire,
live in a tiny village near the coast,
sleep late, play with your children,
catch a few fish, take a siesta with your wife
and spend your evenings drinking and enjoying your friends."  

"With all due respect sir, but that's exactly what we are doing now. So what's the point wasting twenty-five years?" asked the Mexicans.

And the moral of this story is:

Know where you're going in life....
you may already be thereJ

Congratulations to my dearest boy....nasrul

A DAY WITHOUT  SMILING  

IS A WASTED DAY ! !

Wow...i think today is one of the happiest day in my life,,,knowing that my lovable son, Nasrul, managed to get his offer to the Science School in Muar, Johore.

Actually, it's a double happiness for me coz he is going to be in Muar.....Alhamdulillah....My parents would be very happy if they are still around ....

Congratulations to Nas....for grabbing this chance...

May his dreams come true and may he finds his ways to succeed in his studies as he is about to face his future.....as Success does not come straight to you...so you have to work hard to get it.....

To my dearest Nas,

Hard work and dilligence is the stairway to success...

Always do your best ...as what you plant now, you will harvest later....

Do remember, Nas that the keys to success is to set your own goals and determine your own motivation.....

So, son, do cherish your visions and your dreams as they are the children of your soul, the blueprints of your ultimate achievements...

Always think:

Allah, I can do this..........

Be thankful to Allah for what you have been awarded for in this stage of life....

Son,

don't forget to perform your prayers everyday as Prayer is not a "spare wheel" that you pull out when in trouble  but it is a steering wheel that directs you to the right path through out your life.....

mama , papa, along, angah, acik and nurul dz......

you....

so much...................

Money and Love........powerful things on earth!!!

MONEY AND LOVE

There are 2 most powerful things in our world.. n that would be "Money & Love" n here are the differences:

Money talks..


Love whispers..


Money builds houses..


Love builds homes..


Money rules the world..


Love protects..


Money is the power..


Love is strong..


Money creates gap between rich n poor..


Love creates bridge between them..


Money creates huge brick walls for all differences among all of us..


Love breaks through the wall n makes we're all united..


Money creates wars n crimes..


Love creates peaceful harmony..


So they are...


Money is always the reason behind all existence..


Love is always the answer of all existence..


So be Grateful when u're received Love more than money


Money is important...


Yet it would be nothing without LOVE

I am going  to say about the..........
Money 

 
It can buy a house
 
But not a home 
 
It can buy a clock


But not time 
 
It can buy you a position 
 
But not respect 
 
It can buy you a bed

 
But not sleep 
 
It can buy you a book
 
But not knowledge 
 
It can buy you medicine
 
But not health 

It can buy you blood

But not life

So you see money isn't everything 

And it often causes pain and suffering  
I tell you this because I am your friend 
 
And as your friend I want to 
 
Take away your pain and suffering!! 
 
So
Send me all your money

And I will suffer for you! 
 
Cash only please!
After all, what are friends for, right??




I HOPE THIS MADE YOU SMILE!!!  LAUGHTER IS THE BEST MEDICINE
ANYWAY....LOVE GIVES YOU FAMILY AND FRIENDSSSS......NEVERTHELESS, LOVE WITHOUT MONEY.....isssssshhhhh...difficult to say!!!...  he he he...coz now everything needs money lah....