My Family...My Life

My Family...My Life

Friday, January 28, 2011

Very touching Mother facts !




 When you came into the world, she held you in her arms.
 You thanked her by wailing like a banshee.

 When you were 1 year old, she fed you and bathed you.
 You thanked her by crying all night long.

 When you were 2 years old, she taught you to walk.
 You thanked her by running away when she called.

 When you were 3 years old, she made all your meals with love.
 You thanked her by tossing your plate on the floor.

 When you were 4 years old, she gave you some crayons.
 You thanked her by coloring the dining room table.

 When you were 5 years old, she dressed you for the holidays.
 You thanked her by plopping into the nearest pile of mud.

 When you were 6 years old, she walked you to school.
 You thanked her by screaming, "I'M NOT GOING!"

 When you were 7 years old, she bought you a baseball.
 You thanked her by throwing it through the
 next-door-neighbor's window.

 When you were 8 years old, she handed you an ice cream.
 You thanked her by dripping it all over your lap.

 When you were 9 years old, she paid for piano lessons.
 You thanked her by never even bothering to practice.

 When you were 10 years old, she drove you all day, from
 soccer to gymnastics to one birthday party after another.
 You thanked her by jumping out of the car and never looking back.

 When you were 11 years old, she took you and your friends to the movies.
 You thanked her by asking to sit in a different row.

 When you were 12 years old, she warned you not to watch certain TV shows.
 You thanked her by waiting until she left the house.

 Those teenage years
 When you were 13, she suggested a haircut that was becoming.
 You thanked her by telling her she had no taste.

 When you were 14, she paid for a month away at summer camp.
 You thanked her by forgetting to write a single letter.

 When you were 15, she came home from work, looking for a hug.
 You thanked her by having your bedroom door locked.

 When you were 16, she taught you how to driver her car.
 You thanked her by taking it every chance you could.

 When you were 17, she was expecting an important call.
 You thanked her by being on the phone all night.

 When you were 18, she cried at your high school graduation.
 You thanked her by staying out partying until dawn.
 Growing old and gray

 When you were 19, she paid for your college tuition,
 drove you to campus, carried your bags.
 You thanked her by saying good-bye outside the dorm so you wouldn't
 be embarrassed in front of your friends.

 When you were 20, she asked whether you were seeing anyone.
 You thanked her by saying, "It's none of your business."

 When you were 21, she suggested certain careers for your future.
 You thanked her by saying, "I don't want to be like you."

 When you were 22, she hugged you at your college graduation.
 You thanked her by asking whether she could pay for a trip to Europe.

 When you were 23, she gave you furniture for your first apartment.
 You thanked her by telling your friends it was ugly.

 When you were 24, she met your fiance and asked about your plans for the future.
 You thanked her by glaring and growling, "Muuhh-ther, please!"

 When you were 25, she helped to pay for your wedding, and she cried and told
 you how deeply she loved you.
 You thanked her by moving halfway across the country.

 When you were 30, she called with some advice on the baby.
 You thanked her by telling her, "Things are different now."

 When you were 40, she called to remind you of an relative's birthday.
 You thanked her by saying you were "really busy right now."

 When you were 50, she fell ill and needed you to take care of her.
 You thanked her by reading about the burden parents become to their children.


 And then, one day, she quietly died. And everything you never did came
 crashing down like thunder.

 "Rock me baby, rock me all night long."
 "The hand who rocks the cradle...may rock the world".

 Let us take a moment of the time just to pay tribute/show appreciation to
 the person called MOM though some may not say it openly to their mother.

 There's no substitute for her. Cherished every single moment.
 Though at times she may not be the best of friends, may not agree to our
 thoughts, she is still your mother!!!

 She will be there for you...to listen to your woes, your braggings, your
 frustations, etc.

 Ask yourself.....have you put aside enough time for her, to listen to her
 "blues" of working in the kitchen, her tiredness???

 Be tactful, loving and still show her due respect though you may have a
 different view from hers.
 Once gone, only fond memories of the past and also regrets will be left.

 **DON'T TAKE FOR GRANTED THE THINGS CLOSEST TO YOUR HEART. CLING TO THEM AS
 U WOULD YOUR LIFE, FOR WITHOUT THEM, LIFE IS MEANINGLESS*



Semoga roh mak (arwah ibu and arwah mak) dicucuri rahmat dan diletakkan di tempat-tempat orang-orang yang beriman



Amin.....Ya rabbal 'alamin....

If you have time, read this.....


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Berkepit dengan pasangan yang bukan muhrim di komplek membeli belah untuk menunjukkan kehebatan diri yang dijadikan Tuhan.

Mengusung anak dara orang dengan motosikal besar ke sana kemari untuk dibuat tontonan.

Ibu bapa membiarkan anak perempuan yang telah baligh tidak menutup aurat dan termasuk membogelkan kepala tanpa bertudung semasa keluar dari rumah .

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WAHAI INSAN,

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Oleh itu wahai manusia yang bergelar suami dan bapa, peliharalah anak-anak dan isteri dengan mengikut kehendak agama yang telah ditunjukkan oleh Rasulullah s.a.w sejak dahulu lagi.

Segala yang baik datangnya dari Allah Azza Wa Jalla, segala yang kurang baik adalah dari kelemahan diri saya sendiri......

Wassalam......

Where are we heading....a good one for everyone!!!

HAPPY READING

The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings, but shorter tempers; wider freeways, but narrower viewpoints; we spend more, but have less; we buy more but enjoy it less.

We have bigger houses and smaller families; more conveniences, but less time; we have more degrees, but less sense; more knowledge, but less judgement; more experts, but more problems; more medicine, but less wellness.

We drink too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry too quickly, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom.

We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often. We've learned how to make a living, but not a life; We've added years to life, not life to years.

We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet the new neighbor. We've conquered outer space, but not inner space; We've done larger things, but not better things.
We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul; we've split the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less; we plan more, but accomplish less.

We've learned to rush, but not to wait; we have higher incomes, but, lower morals.
We build more computers to hold more information to produce more copies than ever, but have less communication; We've become long on quantity, but short on quality.

These are the days of two incomes, but more divorce; of fancier houses, but broken homes.

These are the days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throw away morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill. Where are we heading ....?

If we die tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of days.  But the family we left behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives.


And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more into work than to our family an unwise investment indeed.


So what is the morale of the story????

Don't work too hard... and you know what's the full word of family?

 
FAMILY = (F)ATHER (A)ND (M)OTHER, (I) (L)OVE (Y)OU