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My Family...My Life

Saturday, June 25, 2011

Sometimes we bury hurts and pretend they did not happen......

Hi everyone...just thot of sharing this piece with u....very nice..hope all of u'll enjoy reading it...just take a minute or two !!!!



Sometimes we bury hurts and pretend they did not happen, except they can resurface every so often, or we go to visit the graveside and spend time with our hurts.

Sometimes we carry our hurts with us like a big burden and so they weigh us down.

They never let us be free, they affect how we relate to others.

BUT our awesome God is waiting to set us free from our hurts.

He is able to help us work through those hurts and how they have affected our lives.

It is a process, but freedom from the hurt is achievable.

We can move forward.

HEALED AND WHOLE:

One day I dug a little hole,
and put my hurt inside
I thought that I could just forget
I'd put it there to hide.
But that little hurt began to grow,
I covered it every day
I couldn't leave it and go on
It seemed the price I had to pay.

My joy was gone,
my heart was sad,
pain was all I knew.
My wounded soul enveloped me
Loving seemed too hard to do.
One day, while standing by my hole,
I cried to God above
And said, "If You are really there,
They say, You're a God of love!"

And just like that,
He was right there,
And just put his arms around me
He wiped away my tears,
his hurting child there was no safer place to be.
I told Him all about my hurt,
I opened up my heart
He listened to each and every word
to every sordid part.

I dug down deep and got my hurt
I brushed the dirt away
And placed it in the Master's hand
and healing came that day.
He took the blackness from my soul
and set my spirit FREE!
Something beautiful began to grow
where the hurt used to be.

And when I look at what has grown
Out of my tears and pain
I remember every day
to give my hurts to GOD
And never bury them again.

Have faith in our loving God.
There is nothing in this world
too big for our LORD

Author Unknown



mAmAzUe

Don't be afraid of making mistakes..Problems? No Problems!!!!!


Peace to all....



An interesting article about LIFE IS GREAT......

Life is so great, full of blessings and opportunities. Live in peace and be happy; regardless of whatever happens to you or around you, no problem!

As long as we live, everybody goes through circumstances; some of these circumstances are called problems by some people. If we think we have problems and that we will live in misery because of them, we are right. If we think the circumstances or challenges we have to face are the result of our erroneous choices and actions and they can be fixed, we also are correct. It is a choice and our attitude is what determines our results; it is entirely up to us. At the end, everything is and will be OK. Your attitude determines how you feel physically and mentally and how successful our lives become.

As long as we visualize life's challenges as bigger than us, we will not be able to overcome them, to grow nor improve. There is no problem in making mistakes, at all. All of us make mistakes, but the real problem is not being aware of them.

Awareness is the first step to solve problems and to progress. We don't have to feel useless, incapable, depressed, or failures when we make mistakes. As a matter of fact, all problems and mistakes are opportunities. We find balance by making mistakes, they give us experiences and the opportunity to improve our lives, they are part of our growth, and they are teaching us that next time we need to do it differently.

Making mistakes doesn't make us useless, incapable, worthless or failures unless we quit. When you have a problem or make a mistake, just get up and keep going; at the end of the tunnel there is always light. Don't be afraid of making mistakes. What really affects your performance are the fears and doubts, and wasting your time thinking about something that already happened.

We all are here to learn, nobody is perfect. Instead of focusing on the problems in the past, focus on the results you want. The more time you spend thinking and doing what you want, the better you feel and the closer you are to accomplishing it. Be confident! Never, never, never hesitate! Mistakes are opportunities in disguise. Making a mistake is only telling us that we need to learn something new, that it is time to change, and change is growth.

In order to grow and reach harmony, life will always put us in the place where we need to be, and as many times as we need, until we learn the lesson. If things are not going the way you want, life, through our problems, is telling us that we need to change our attitude, the way we are thinking, feeling and acting. As Albert Einstein said, "A problem can not be solved with the same mind that created it".

The only way to solve any problem is to be aware of it and understand it. So, if you want all aspects of your life to be in harmony, to change and improve, put yourself in a different environment, in a different mind frame. Educate yourself, learn as much as you can and dare to do new things. Say to yourself, "I am bigger than my problems, fear and doubts, and I have everything it takes to succeed".

Be responsible and become part of the solution. Give and don't depend on others but yourself. Face your life without fear, with confidence and don't run away from your problems, because as long as you don't solve them, they will always be there chasing you; it doesn't matter where you go. If you want to prevent, avoid and be able to solve all your problems, the confused, conflictive and poor person within you needs to die and you have to become a winner, a problems solver.

Love without thinking about it, give the best of you, appreciate what you have, live in peace, smile, and be happy regardless any circumstance.

YOU DESERVE IT!

 

 

 

Better keep the word or never do so.......

We can see a lot of people who give out plenty of offerings and promises with good things. But 90% of these promises will not happen anymore.  People in the other end of-course will be fascinated with the unforgettable offerings. This may shake their normal life too. Sometimes the whole future might be depending on these offers. These promises are like the advertisement of Hell ( Just Kidding :-) )

We can see these types of promises among business people, higher authority of organizations and crooked people like that. But sure this is not the boundary of these promises. We can see it anywhere anytime. :-) .
So what is the reason?? Yes, This is for some personal needs or profitable decisions. Anyway in one or other way profit is the only intension of these offers.

At last what will happen?? Here come the three different eccentric characters.
Some people consider the promises as if they were the curry leaves in curries. They will never turn to the offers and just give up after the specific need that they previously plotted, had happened. They are the very cruel faces who will not give any consideration to human feelings.

Another type will try to keep the promise, but in some point they may not be able to fulfill that. So what they will do is they will give some other offers instead of the one they have given previously. But still there is not a 100% mind to do so. They are a group who bothered about people who feels anything wrong. Gradually they will transfer to a group of people who belongs to the third category.

The third category people are the one who will never face the person to whom they have given the promise. They are cowards without a back bone. They want to get everything but do not want to lose anything. They will utilize others for their own personal benefits and will not give face to them after the fulfillment of their needs. The second category people which I have explained above gradually transforms to this category in the future.

Apparently most of the offerings will not happen in the right time, right place and in the right mode. These are my view points and there may be another face for this discussion like the two sides of a coin. So anyone can discuss their views, thoughts, experience or truths through comments.




hugs & kisses from me...

mAmAzUe.... 

Friday, June 24, 2011

Kebajikan yang tak berakhir......The actions which outlives you.....



Salam to all...these are very important tips for all of us and really, really, really if u follow the actions, they would really outlive u and u'll have a better side of life....do it and remember to do it sincerely and truthfulli...u'll definitely gain from the all the deeds....learn to appreciate and learn to accept the gratitude of others coz all these counts too!!!!



1. Berikan al-Quran pada seseorang, dan setiap dibaca, Anda mendapatkan hasanah.

Give Quran to someone and each time they read from it, you will gain hasanaat.


2. Sumbangkan kerusi roda ke hospital dan setiap orang sakit menggunakannya, Anda dapat hasanah.

Donate a wheelchair to a hospital and each time a sick person uses it, you will gain hasanaat.


3. Berkongsi bahan bacaan yang membangun dengan seseorang.

Share constructive reading material with someone.


4. Bantu mendidik seorang anak.

Help in educating a child.


5. Ajarkan seseorang sebuah do’a. Pada setiap bacaan do’a itu, anda dapat hasanah.

Teach someone to recite a dua. With each recitation, you will gain hasanaat.


6. Berkongsi CD Quran atau Do’a.

Share a dua or Quran CD.


7. Terlibat dalam pembangunan sebuah masjid.

Participate in the building of a mosque.


8. Tempatkan pendingin air di tempat umum.

Place a water cooler in a public place.


9. Tanam sebuah pohon. Setiap seseorang atau binatang berlindung di bawahnya, Anda dapat hasanah.

Plant a tree. Each time any person or an animal sits under its shade or eats from the tree, you will gain hasanaat.


10. Khabarkan ilmu ini kpd org lain. Jika orang yg mendpt pesanan ini menjalankan salah satu dari yang di atas, anda dapat hasanah sampai hari Qiamat.

Share this with someone. If one person applies any of the above you will receive your hasanaat until the Day of Judgment.


Insya’Allah.

 MaMaZuE

Sebuah cerita tauladan yang menarik.....

 Assalamualaikum kepada semua.....salam sejahtera....



Memang rasanya tidak berblog ni sebab kesempitan masa.....tp nak jugak share satu cerita pada hari ini...a very good one to teach each and everyone of us about life....it has a good moral & hope everybody boleh dapat impact dari cerita ini.....baca dan renungkan sendiri.....



Alkisahnya, pada suatu hari, ada seorang profesor yang sedang membuat kajian tentang lautan menumpang sebuah sampan. Pendayung sampan itu adalah seorang tua yang begitu pendiam. Profesor itu memang mencari pendayung sampan yang pendiam agar tidak banyak bertanya ketika dia sedang membuat kajian.

Dengan begitu tekun si profesor itu membuat kajiannya. Diambilnya sedikit air laut dengan tabung uji kemudian digoyang-goyang, selepas itu dia menulis sesuatu di dalam buku. Berjam-jam lamanya Profesor itu membuat kajian dengan tekun sekali.

Pendayung sampan itu mendongak ke langit. Berdasarkan pengalamannya dia berkata dalam hati, "Hmm... Pasti ribut melanda sebentar lagi..."

"OK, semua sudah siap, mari kita balik ke darat," kata profesor itu. Pendayung sampan itu akur dan mula memusingkan sampannya ke arah pantai. Hanya dalam perjalanan pulang itu barulah profesor itu menegur si pendayung sampan.

"Kamu dah lama kerja mendayung sampan?" tanya profesor itu.

"Hampir seumur hidup saya," jawab si pendayung sampan itu dengan ringkas.

"Seumur hidup kamu?" tanya profesor itu lagi.

"Ya."

"Jadi kamu tak tahu perkara-perkara lain selain daripada mendayung sampan?"

Pendayung sampan itu hanya menggelengkan kepalanya. Masih tidak berpuas hati, profssor itu bertanya lagi, "Kamu tahu geografi?"

Pendayung sampan itu menggelengkan kepala.

"Kalau macam ni, kamu dah kehilangan 25% daripada usia kamu. Kamu tahu biologi?"

Pendayung sampan itu menggelengkan kepalanya lagi.

"Kasihan... Kamu dah kehilangan 50% usia kamu. Kamu tahu fizik?" profesor itu masih lagi bertanya.

Seperti tadi, pendayung sampan itu hanya menggelengkan kepala.

"Kalau begini, kasihan... Kamu sudah kehilangan 75% daripada usia kamu.Malang sungguh nasib kamu, semuanya tak tahu. Seluruh usia kamu dihabiskan sebagai pendayung sampan," kata profesor itu dengan nada mengejek dan angkuh. Pendayung sampan itu hanya berdiam diri.

Selang beberapa minit kemudian, tiba-tiba hujan turun. Tiba-tiba saja datang ombak besar. Sampan itu dilambung ombak besar dan terbalik.Profesor dan pendayung sampan itu terpelanting. Sempat pula si pendayung sampan itu bertanya kepada si profesor, "Kamu tahu berenang?"

Profesor itu menggelengkan kepala.

"Kalau macam ini, kamu dah kehilangan 100% nyawa kamu," kata si pendayung sampan sambil berenang menuju ke pantai.

Iktibar Cerita:

Dalam hidup ini IQ yang tinggi belum tentu boleh menjamin kehidupan.

Tak guna kita pandai dan tahu banyak perkara jika tak tahu perkara-perkara penting dalam hidup. Adakalanya orang yang kita sangka bodoh itu rupanya lebih berjaya daripada kita. Dia mungkin bodoh dalam bidang yang tidak ada kena mengena dengan kerjayanya, tetapi "MASTER" dalam bidang yang diceburi.

Hidup ini singkat. Jadi, tanyalah pada diri sendiri: Untuk apakah ilmu yang dikumpulkan jika bukan untuk digunakan dan boleh digunakan?



MaMaZuE

Sunday, June 19, 2011

You are wonderful



Everybody knows.....
You can't be all things to all people.
You can't do all things at once.
You can't do all things equally well.
You can't do all things better than everyone else.
Your humanity is showing just like everyone else's.

So.....
You have to find out who you are, and be that.
You have to decide what comes first, and do that.
You have to discover your strengths, and use them.
You have to learn not to compete with others,
Because no one else is in the contest of being YOU.

And then.....
You will have learned to accept your own uniqueness.
You will have learned to set priorities and make decisions.
You will have learned to live with your limitations.
You will have learned to give yourself the respect that is due.
And you'll be a most unique and happy human being.

Always believe.....
That you are a wonderful, unique person.
That you are a once in all history event.
That it's more than a right, it's your duty to be who you are.
That life is not a problem to solve, but a gift to cherish.
And you'll always be able to stay one up on what used to get you down!


mAmAzUe

Wednesday, June 8, 2011

Two travelling angels....please read it till the end....

ASSALAMUALAIKUM & SALAM SEJAHTERA TO ALL....

Something to ponder before u close your eyes tonite




Keep reading to the bottom of the page -- (You'll see).

Two traveling angels stopped to spend the night in the home of a wealthy family.

The family was rude and refused to let the angels stay in the mansion's guest room.

Instead the angels were given a small space in the cold basement.

As they made their bed on the hard floor, the older angel saw a hole in the wall and repaired it.

When the younger angel asked why, the older angel replied,

"Things aren't always what they seem"

The next night the pair came to rest at the house of a very poor, but very hospitable farmer and his wife.

After sharing what little food they had the couple let the angels sleep in their bed where they could have a good night's rest.

When the sun came up the next morning the angels found the farmer and his wife in tears.

Their only cow, whose milk had been their sole income, lay dead in the field.

The younger angel was infuriated and asked the older angel how could you have let this happen?

The first man had everything, yet you helped him, she accused.

The second family had little but was willing to share everything, and you let the cow die..

"Things aren't always what they seem," the older angel replied.

"When we stayed in the basement of the mansion, I noticed there was gold stored in that hole in the wall.

Since the owner was so obsessed with greed and unwilling to share his good fortune, I sealed the wall so he wouldn't find it."

"Then last night as we slept in the farmers bed, the angel of death came for his wife I gave him the cow instead.

Things aren't always what they seem."

Sometimes that is exactly what happens when things don't turn out the way they should.

If you have faith, you just need to trust that every out come is always to your advantage.

You just might not know it until some time later...

Some people come into our lives and quickly go..

Some people become friends and stay awhile...leaving beautiful footprints on our hearts... and we are never quite the same because we have made a good friend!!

Yesterday is history.
Tomorrow a mystery.
Today is a gift.
That's why it's called the present!

I think this is special...live and savour every moment... This is not a dress rehearsal!

TAKE THIS LITTLE ANGEL AND KEEP HER CLOSE TO YOU SHE IS YOUR GUARDIAN ANGEL SENT TO WATCH OVER YOU
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THIS IS A SPECIAL GUARDIAN ANGEL... SHE WILL WATCH OVER YOU FOREVER....

Right Now -

-somebody is thinking of you.
-somebody is caring about you.
-somebody misses you
-somebody wants to talk to you.
-somebody wants to be with you.
-somebody hopes you aren't in trouble.
-somebody is thankful for the support you have provided.
-somebody wants to hold your hand.
-somebody hopes everything turns out all right.
-somebody wants you to be happy.
-somebody wants you to find him/her.
-somebody is celebrating your successes.
-somebody wants to give you a gift.
-somebody thinks that you ARE a gift.
-somebody loves you.
-somebody admires your strength.
-somebody is thinking of you and smiling.
-somebody wants to be your shoulder to cry on.

SOMEBODY NEEDS YOU TO SHOW THIS TO THEM

Never take away anyone's hope.

That may be all they have.



 MaMaZuE