SELAMAT MENYAMBUT BLN RAMADHAN AL MUBARAK KPD SEMUA MUSLIMIN DAN MUSLIMAT

 

Tanpa Disedari
11 bulan
banyak kata sudah diucapkan dan dilontarkan
tak semua menyejukkan,

11 bulan
banyak perilaku yang sudah dibuat dan diciptakan
tak semua menyenangkan,

11 bulan
banyak keluhan, kebencian dan kemarahan

saatnya istirahat dalam "perjalanan dunia"
saatnya membersihkan jiwa yang berjelaga,
saatnya menikmati indahnya kemurahanNya
saatnya memahami makna pensucian diri

Selamat menunaikan Ibadah Puasa
bersama kita leburkan kekhilafan,

Semoga dengan puasa mempertemukan kita
dengan Keagungan Lailatul Qadar
dan kita semua menjadi pilihanNya
untuk dikabulkan do'a - do'a
dan kembali menjadi fitrah

ANDAI INI RAMADHAN YANG TERAKHIR

andai kau tahu ini Ramadhan terakhir
tentu siangnya engkau sibuk berzikir
tentu engkau tak akan jemu melagukan syair rindu
mendayu..merayu. ..kepada- NYA Tuhan yang satu
andai kau tahu ini Ramadhan terakhir
tentu solatmu kau kerjakan di awal waktu
solat yang dikerjakan.. .sungguh khusyuk lagi tawadhu'
tubuh dan qalbu...bersatu memperhamba diri
menghadap Rabbul Jalil... menangisi kecurangan janji
"innasolati wanusuki wamahyaya wamamati lillahirabbil 'alamin"
[sesungguhnya solatku, ibadahku, hidupku, dan matiku...
kuserahkan hanya kepada Allah Tuhan seru sekalian alam]
Namun teman...
tak akan ada manusia yang bakal mengetahui
apakah Ramadhan ini merupakan yang terakhir kali bagi dirinya
yang mampu bagi seorang hamba itu hanyalah
berusaha...bersedia ...meminta belas-NYA 

Wahai tuhan ku tak layak ke syurgamu ... namun tak pula aku sanggup ke Nerakamu ... kami lah hamba yang mengharap belas darimu "ya allah jadikan lah kami hamba2 mu yang bertaqwa..ampunkan dosa2 kami kedua ibubapa kami .dosa semua umat2 islam yang masih hidup mahupun yang telah meninggal dunia" Amin.....

andai benar ini Ramadhan terakhir buat saya
Saya pohonkan kemaafan di atas segala kesilapan & dosa-dosa yang lalu. Semoga Ramadhan tahun ini akan menjadi 'ibadah puasa YANG TERBAIK & YANG PALING IKHLAS yang pernah kita lakukan. Semoga 'ibadah puasa kita pada tahun ini juga akan diberkati & diterima oleh ALLAH s.w.t.. InsyaAllah.  

 

 

Bagi mengulangkaji, Niat puasa sebulan dulu selepas isyak (1kali sahaja) dan niat puasa harian (tiap-tiap malam).

LAFAZ NIAT PUASA

nawaitu souma godhin ‘an adaa i, fardhi syahri ramadhaana haadzihis
sanati lillahi ta’aalaa

Sahaja aku berpuasa esok hari dalam bulan  ramadhan fardhu atas aku kerana Allah Taala

LAFAZ NIAT PUASA UNTUK SEBULAN

nawaitu souma syahri ramadhaana haadzihis sanati lillahi ta'aalaa

Sahaja aku berpuasa sebulan pada bulan Ramadan bagi tahun ini
kerana Allah Taala

DOA BERBUKA PUASA

allahumma laka somtu wa bika aamantu wa ‘alaa rizqika afthartu
birahmatika ya arhamarrohimin

Selamat berpuasa semua!

 

~ Salam Ramadhan Al –Mubaraq~

Berapakah Nilai Seorang Perempuan Bergelar Isteri

Assalamualaikum kepada semua suami dan bakal suami.....

Hargailah isteri anda......

Mulianya seorang isteri disisi Allah...

Dan betapa berharganya wanita yang bergelar isteri ini pada keluarga, suami dan anak-anak

Rugi dan binasalah suami-suami yang tidak menghargai isteri mereka kerana isteri inilah yang akan membantu mereka di akhirat kelak.

Biarlah buruk mana isteri anda, sayangilah mereka......

Beruntungnya seorang wanita sebab dia ada rahim, oleh itu dia bekerja dengan Allah SWT...... jadi 'kilang ' manusia.

Tiap-tiap bulan dia diberi cuti tetapi bergaji penuh...

7 sehingga 15 hari sebulan dia tak wajib Solat tetapi Allah SWT anggap diwaktu itu sembahyang terbaik darinya.

Cuti bersalin juga sehingga 60 hari tapi orang2 zaman sekarang beruntung dapat 180 hr...masa time2 aku beranak dulu, dapat 40 hari jer..if nak tambah apply cuti sendiri....nasib badannnnn.....

Bila dah bersalin tu, susukanlah anak...jgn takut "kendur" atau menggelebeh pulak..

Ah yang si suami pulak, jangan lah berebut dengan bayi untuk menyusu pulak….

Cuti ini bukan cuti suka hati tapi cuti yang Allah beri sebab dia bekerja dengan Allah SWT ,

Tapi bila dah habis cuti tu.. . layanlah suami... "offer" lah pada suami ,

Nabi bersabda: berjimak dgn isteri itu pahala ...jangan buat deekkk jeee (tak peduli),

Jangan buat alasan itu dan ini pulak...….ingat tu si isteri yee!!!

Kata nak pahala lebih…

Orang lelaki tak ada cuti dari Solat.....

Semua Solat wajib baginya dari baligh sehingga habis nyawanya...

Satu lagi berita gembira untuk wanita,... Sepanjang dia mengandung

Allah SWT sentiasa mengampunkan dosanya,

Lahir saja bayi seluruh dosanya habis.

Inilah nikmat Allah SWT beri kepada wanita, jadi kenapa perlu takut nak beranak?

Marilah kita pegang kepada tali Allah SWT.

Seandainya wanita itu mati sewaktu bersalin, itu dianggap mati Syahid,

Allah SWT izinkan terus masuk Syurga.

Untuk orang bukan Islam, dia tak dapat masuk Syurga tapi Allah beri kelonggaran seksa kubur.

Untuk peringatan semua wanita yang bersuami seluruh kebaikan suaminya, semuanya isteri dapat pahala tetapi dosa-dosa suami dia tak tanggung.

Di akhirat nanti seorang wanita solehah akan terperanjat dengan pahala extra yang banyak dia terima di atas segala kebaikan suaminya yang tak disedari.

Contohnya bila dia redha suaminya pergi berjemaah di masjid atau ke majlis ilmu, bersedekah.. ganjaran Allah ke atasnya jua. .

Bila dia lihat suaminya tengah terhegeh-hegeh di titian Sirat dia tak nak masuk syurga tanpa suaminya,

jadi dia pun memberi pahalanya kepada suami untuk lepas masuk syurga.

Di dunia lagi, kalau suami dalam kesusahan isteri boleh bantu tambah lagi di akhirat.

Kalau seorang isteri asyik merungut, mulut selalu muncung terhadap suami dia tak akan dapat pahala extra ini.

Manakala suami pula mempunyai tugas-tugas berat di dalam dan di luar rumah, segala dosa-dosa anak isteri yang tak dididik dia akan tanggung ditambah lagi dengan dosa-dosa yang lain..

Dinasihatkan kepada semua wanita supaya faham akan syariat Allah SWT agar tidak derhaka denganNya.

Sesungguhnya wanita dijadikan daripada rusuk kiri lelaki.

Dia bukan dicipta dari kepala ke kaki, juga bukan dari tapak kaki.

Dia dicipta dari sebelah rusuk kiri lelaki supaya dia hampir kepada kamu (lelaki), lengan lelaki dicipta untuk mempertahankan wanita, dekat dengan hati lelaki untuk disayangi.

Woman was made from the rib of man,
She was not created from his head to top him,
Nor from his feet to be stepped upon,
She was made from his side to be close to him,
From beneath his arm to be protected by him,
Near his heart to be loved by him.

*** Ya Allah..

Mudah-mudahan aku  menjadi seorang isteri yang solehah dan terbaik untuk suamiku.....Aminnnn

mAmAzUe

Sometimes we bury hurts and pretend they did not happen......

Hi everyone...just thot of sharing this piece with u....very nice..hope all of u'll enjoy reading it...just take a minute or two !!!!

Sometimes we bury hurts and pretend they did not happen, except they can resurface every so often, or we go to visit the graveside and spend time with our hurts.

Sometimes we carry our hurts with us like a big burden and so they weigh us down.

They never let us be free, they affect how we relate to others.

BUT our awesome God is waiting to set us free from our hurts.

He is able to help us work through those hurts and how they have affected our lives.

It is a process, but freedom from the hurt is achievable.

We can move forward.

HEALED AND WHOLE:

One day I dug a little hole,

and put my hurt inside

I thought that I could just forget

I'd put it there to hide.

But that little hurt began to grow,

I covered it every day

I couldn't leave it and go on

It seemed the price I had to pay.

My joy was gone,

my heart was sad,

pain was all I knew.

My wounded soul enveloped me

Loving seemed too hard to do.

One day, while standing by my hole,

I cried to God above

And said, "If You are really there,

They say, You're a God of love!"

And just like that,

He was right there,

And just put his arms around me

He wiped away my tears,

his hurting child there was no safer place to be.

I told Him all about my hurt,

I opened up my heart

He listened to each and every word

to every sordid part.

I dug down deep and got my hurt

I brushed the dirt away

And placed it in the Master's hand

and healing came that day.

He took the blackness from my soul

and set my spirit FREE!

Something beautiful began to grow

where the hurt used to be.

And when I look at what has grown

Out of my tears and pain

I remember every day

to give my hurts to GOD

And never bury them again.

Have faith in our loving God.

There is nothing in this world

too big for our LORD

Author Unknown

mAmAzUe

Don't be afraid of making mistakes..Problems? No Problems!!!!!

Peace to all....

An interesting article about LIFE IS GREAT......

Life is so great, full of blessings and opportunities. Live in peace and be happy; regardless of whatever happens to you or around you, no problem!

As long as we live, everybody goes through circumstances; some of these circumstances are called problems by some people. If we think we have problems and that we will live in misery because of them, we are right. If we think the circumstances or challenges we have to face are the result of our erroneous choices and actions and they can be fixed, we also are correct. It is a choice and our attitude is what determines our results; it is entirely up to us. At the end, everything is and will be OK. Your attitude determines how you feel physically and mentally and how successful our lives become.

As long as we visualize life's challenges as bigger than us, we will not be able to overcome them, to grow nor improve. There is no problem in making mistakes, at all. All of us make mistakes, but the real problem is not being aware of them.

Awareness is the first step to solve problems and to progress. We don't have to feel useless, incapable, depressed, or failures when we make mistakes. As a matter of fact, all problems and mistakes are opportunities. We find balance by making mistakes, they give us experiences and the opportunity to improve our lives, they are part of our growth, and they are teaching us that next time we need to do it differently.

Making mistakes doesn't make us useless, incapable, worthless or failures unless we quit. When you have a problem or make a mistake, just get up and keep going; at the end of the tunnel there is always light. Don't be afraid of making mistakes. What really affects your performance are the fears and doubts, and wasting your time thinking about something that already happened.

We all are here to learn, nobody is perfect. Instead of focusing on the problems in the past, focus on the results you want. The more time you spend thinking and doing what you want, the better you feel and the closer you are to accomplishing it. Be confident! Never, never, never hesitate! Mistakes are opportunities in disguise. Making a mistake is only telling us that we need to learn something new, that it is time to change, and change is growth.

In order to grow and reach harmony, life will always put us in the place where we need to be, and as many times as we need, until we learn the lesson. If things are not going the way you want, life, through our problems, is telling us that we need to change our attitude, the way we are thinking, feeling and acting. As Albert Einstein said, "A problem can not be solved with the same mind that created it".

The only way to solve any problem is to be aware of it and understand it. So, if you want all aspects of your life to be in harmony, to change and improve, put yourself in a different environment, in a different mind frame. Educate yourself, learn as much as you can and dare to do new things. Say to yourself, "I am bigger than my problems, fear and doubts, and I have everything it takes to succeed".

Be responsible and become part of the solution. Give and don't depend on others but yourself. Face your life without fear, with confidence and don't run away from your problems, because as long as you don't solve them, they will always be there chasing you; it doesn't matter where you go. If you want to prevent, avoid and be able to solve all your problems, the confused, conflictive and poor person within you needs to die and you have to become a winner, a problems solver.

Love without thinking about it, give the best of you, appreciate what you have, live in peace, smile, and be happy regardless any circumstance.

YOU DESERVE IT!

mAmAzUe

 

 

 

Better keep the word or never do so.......

We can see a lot of people who give out plenty of offerings and promises with good things. But 90% of these promises will not happen anymore.  People in the other end of-course will be fascinated with the unforgettable offerings. This may shake their normal life too. Sometimes the whole future might be depending on these offers. These promises are like the advertisement of Hell ( Just Kidding )

We can see these types of promises among business people, higher authority of organizations and crooked people like that. But sure this is not the boundary of these promises. We can see it anywhere anytime. .

So what is the reason?? Yes, This is for some personal needs or profitable decisions. Anyway in one or other way profit is the only intension of these offers.

At last what will happen?? Here come the three different eccentric characters.

Some people consider the promises as if they were the curry leaves in curries. They will never turn to the offers and just give up after the specific need that they previously plotted, had happened. They are the very cruel faces who will not give any consideration to human feelings.

Another type will try to keep the promise, but in some point they may not be able to fulfill that. So what they will do is they will give some other offers instead of the one they have given previously. But still there is not a 100% mind to do so. They are a group who bothered about people who feels anything wrong. Gradually they will transfer to a group of people who belongs to the third category.

The third category people are the one who will never face the person to whom they have given the promise. They are cowards without a back bone. They want to get everything but do not want to lose anything. They will utilize others for their own personal benefits and will not give face to them after the fulfillment of their needs. The second category people which I have explained above gradually transforms to this category in the future.

Apparently most of the offerings will not happen in the right time, right place and in the right mode. These are my view points and there may be another face for this discussion like the two sides of a coin. So anyone can discuss their views, thoughts, experience or truths through comments.

hugs & kisses from me...

mAmAzUe.... 

Kebajikan yang tak berakhir......The actions which outlives you.....

Salam to all...these are very important tips for all of us and really, really, really if u follow the actions, they would really outlive u and u'll have a better side of life....do it and remember to do it sincerely and truthfulli...u'll definitely gain from the all the deeds....learn to appreciate and learn to accept the gratitude of others coz all these counts too!!!!

1. Berikan al-Quran pada seseorang, dan setiap dibaca, Anda mendapatkan hasanah.

Give Quran to someone and each time they read from it, you will gain hasanaat.

2. Sumbangkan kerusi roda ke hospital dan setiap orang sakit menggunakannya, Anda dapat hasanah.

Donate a wheelchair to a hospital and each time a sick person uses it, you will gain hasanaat.

3. Berkongsi bahan bacaan yang membangun dengan seseorang.

Share constructive reading material with someone.

4. Bantu mendidik seorang anak.

Help in educating a child.

5. Ajarkan seseorang sebuah do’a. Pada setiap bacaan do’a itu, anda dapat hasanah.

Teach someone to recite a dua. With each recitation, you will gain hasanaat.

6. Berkongsi CD Quran atau Do’a.

Share a dua or Quran CD.

7. Terlibat dalam pembangunan sebuah masjid.

Participate in the building of a mosque.

8. Tempatkan pendingin air di tempat umum.

Place a water cooler in a public place.

9. Tanam sebuah pohon. Setiap seseorang atau binatang berlindung di bawahnya, Anda dapat hasanah.

Plant a tree. Each time any person or an animal sits under its shade or eats from the tree, you will gain hasanaat.

10. Khabarkan ilmu ini kpd org lain. Jika orang yg mendpt pesanan ini menjalankan salah satu dari yang di atas, anda dapat hasanah sampai hari Qiamat.

Share this with someone. If one person applies any of the above you will receive your hasanaat until the Day of Judgment.

Insya’Allah.

I simply love doing all these things to others whenever I can.......

 MaMaZuE

You are wonderful

Everybody knows.....
You can't be all things to all people.
You can't do all things at once.
You can't do all things equally well.
You can't do all things better than everyone else.
Your humanity is showing just like everyone else's.

So.....
You have to find out who you are, and be that.
You have to decide what comes first, and do that.
You have to discover your strengths, and use them.
You have to learn not to compete with others,
Because no one else is in the contest of being YOU.

And then.....
You will have learned to accept your own uniqueness.
You will have learned to set priorities and make decisions.
You will have learned to live with your limitations.
You will have learned to give yourself the respect that is due.
And you'll be a most unique and happy human being.

Always believe.....
That you are a wonderful, unique person.
That you are a once in all history event.
That it's more than a right, it's your duty to be who you are.
That life is not a problem to solve, but a gift to cherish.
And you'll always be able to stay one up on what used to get you down!

mAmAzUe

Two travelling angels....please read it till the end....

ASSALAMUALAIKUM & SALAM SEJAHTERA TO ALL....

Something to ponder before u close your eyes tonite

Keep reading to the bottom of the page -- (You'll see).

Two traveling angels stopped to spend the night in the home of a wealthy family.

The family was rude and refused to let the angels stay in the mansion's guest room.

Instead the angels were given a small space in the cold basement.

As they made their bed on the hard floor, the older angel saw a hole in the wall and repaired it.

When the younger angel asked why, the older angel replied,

"Things aren't always what they seem"

The next night the pair came to rest at the house of a very poor, but very hospitable farmer and his wife.

After sharing what little food they had the couple let the angels sleep in their bed where they could have a good night's rest.

When the sun came up the next morning the angels found the farmer and his wife in tears.

Their only cow, whose milk had been their sole income, lay dead in the field.

The younger angel was infuriated and asked the older angel how could you have let this happen?

The first man had everything, yet you helped him, she accused.

The second family had little but was willing to share everything, and you let the cow die..

"Things aren't always what they seem," the older angel replied.

"When we stayed in the basement of the mansion, I noticed there was gold stored in that hole in the wall.

Since the owner was so obsessed with greed and unwilling to share his good fortune, I sealed the wall so he wouldn't find it."

"Then last night as we slept in the farmers bed, the angel of death came for his wife I gave him the cow instead.

Things aren't always what they seem."

Sometimes that is exactly what happens when things don't turn out the way they should.

If you have faith, you just need to trust that every out come is always to your advantage.

You just might not know it until some time later...

Some people come into our lives and quickly go..

Some people become friends and stay awhile...leaving beautiful footprints on our hearts... and we are never quite the same because we have made a good friend!!

Yesterday is history.

Tomorrow a mystery.

Today is a gift.

That's why it's called the present!

I think this is special...live and savour every moment... This is not a dress rehearsal!

TAKE THIS LITTLE ANGEL AND KEEP HER CLOSE TO YOU SHE IS YOUR GUARDIAN ANGEL SENT TO WATCH OVER YOU
____

THIS IS A SPECIAL GUARDIAN ANGEL... SHE WILL WATCH OVER YOU FOREVER....

Right Now -

-somebody is thinking of you.

-somebody is caring about you.

-somebody misses you

-somebody wants to talk to you.

-somebody wants to be with you.

-somebody hopes you aren't in trouble.

-somebody is thankful for the support you have provided.

-somebody wants to hold your hand.

-somebody hopes everything turns out all right.

-somebody wants you to be happy.

-somebody wants you to find him/her.

-somebody is celebrating your successes.

-somebody wants to give you a gift.

-somebody thinks that you ARE a gift.

-somebody loves you.

-somebody admires your strength.

-somebody is thinking of you and smiling.

-somebody wants to be your shoulder to cry on.

SOMEBODY NEEDS YOU TO SHOW THIS TO THEM

Never take away anyone's hope.

That may be all they have.

 MaMaZuE

What goes around comes around...

Hi good morning everyone, here's a beautiful story for everybody out there...well, maybe u had read the story but it's harmless for u to read again and again co it's very meaningful......

One day a man saw an old lady, stranded on the side of the road, but even in the dim light of day, he could see she needed help.

So he pulled up in front of her Mercedes and got out.

His Pontiac was still sputtering when he approached her.

Even with the smile on his face, she was worried.

No one had stopped to help for the last hour or so.

Was he going to hurt her?

He didn't look safe; he looked poor and hungry.

He could see that she was frightened, standing out there in the cold.

He knew how she felt.

It was that chill which only fear can put in you.

He said, 'I'm here to help you, ma'am. Why don't you wait in the car where it's warm? By the way, my name is Bryan Anderson.'

Well, all she had was a flat tyre, but for an old lady, that was bad enough.

Bryan crawled under the car looking for a place to put the jack, skinning his knuckles a time or two.

Soon he was able to change the tyre.

But he had to get dirty and his hands hurt.

As he was tightening up the lug nuts, she rolled down the window and began to talk to him.

She told him that she was from St. Louis and was only just passing through.

She couldn't thank him enough for coming to her aid.

Bryan just smiled as he closed her trunk.

The lady asked how much she owed him.

Any amount would have been all right with her.

She already imagined all the awful things that could have happened had he not stopped.

Bryan never thought twice about being paid.

This was not a job to him.

This was helping someone in need, and God knows there were plenty, who had given him a hand in the past.

He had lived his whole life that way, and it never occurred to him to act any other way.

He told her that if she really wanted to pay him back, the next time she saw someone who needed help, she could give that person the assistance they needed, and Bryan added, 'And think of me.'

He waited until she started her car and drove off.

It had been a cold and depressing day, but he felt good as he headed for home, disappearing into the twilight.

A few miles down the road the lady saw a small cafe.

She went in to grab a bite to eat, and take the chill off before she made the last leg of her trip home.

It was a dingy looking restaurant.

Outside were two old gas pumps.

The whole scene was unfamiliar to her.

The waitress came over and brought a clean towel to wipe her wet hair.

She had a sweet smile, one that even being on her feet for the whole day had change her attitude.

The old lady wondered how someone who had so little could be so giving to a stranger.

Then she remembered Bryan .

After the lady finished her meal, she paid with a hundred dollar bill.

The waitress quickly went to get change for her hundred dollar bill, but the old lady had slipped right out the door.

She was gone by the time the waitress came back.

The waitress wondered where the lady could be.

Then she noticed something written on the napkin.

There were tears in her eyes when she read what the lady wrote: 'You don't owe me anything. I have been there too. Somebody once helped me out, the way I'm helping you. If you really want to pay me back, here is what you do: Do not let this chain of love end with you.'

Under the napkin were four more $100 bills.

Well, there were tables to clear, sugar bowls to fill, and people to serve, but the waitress made it through another day.

That night when she got home from work and climbed into bed, she was thinking about the money and what the lady had written.

How could the lady have known how much she and her husband needed it?

With the baby due next month, it was going to be hard.

She knew how worried her husband was, and as he lay sleeping next to her, she gave him a soft kiss and whispered soft and low, 'Everything's going to be all right. I love you, Bryan Anderson.

There is an old saying 'What goes around comes around.'

Today I share with you this story, and I'm asking you to pass it on.

Let this light shine.....

MaMaZuE