Sometimes we bury hurts and pretend they did not happen......

Hi everyone...just thot of sharing this piece with u....very nice..hope all of u'll enjoy reading it...just take a minute or two !!!!

Sometimes we bury hurts and pretend they did not happen, except they can resurface every so often, or we go to visit the graveside and spend time with our hurts.

Sometimes we carry our hurts with us like a big burden and so they weigh us down.

They never let us be free, they affect how we relate to others.

BUT our awesome God is waiting to set us free from our hurts.

He is able to help us work through those hurts and how they have affected our lives.

It is a process, but freedom from the hurt is achievable.

We can move forward.

HEALED AND WHOLE:

One day I dug a little hole,

and put my hurt inside

I thought that I could just forget

I'd put it there to hide.

But that little hurt began to grow,

I covered it every day

I couldn't leave it and go on

It seemed the price I had to pay.

My joy was gone,

my heart was sad,

pain was all I knew.

My wounded soul enveloped me

Loving seemed too hard to do.

One day, while standing by my hole,

I cried to God above

And said, "If You are really there,

They say, You're a God of love!"

And just like that,

He was right there,

And just put his arms around me

He wiped away my tears,

his hurting child there was no safer place to be.

I told Him all about my hurt,

I opened up my heart

He listened to each and every word

to every sordid part.

I dug down deep and got my hurt

I brushed the dirt away

And placed it in the Master's hand

and healing came that day.

He took the blackness from my soul

and set my spirit FREE!

Something beautiful began to grow

where the hurt used to be.

And when I look at what has grown

Out of my tears and pain

I remember every day

to give my hurts to GOD

And never bury them again.

Have faith in our loving God.

There is nothing in this world

too big for our LORD

Author Unknown

mAmAzUe

Don't be afraid of making mistakes..Problems? No Problems!!!!!

Peace to all....

An interesting article about LIFE IS GREAT......

Life is so great, full of blessings and opportunities. Live in peace and be happy; regardless of whatever happens to you or around you, no problem!

As long as we live, everybody goes through circumstances; some of these circumstances are called problems by some people. If we think we have problems and that we will live in misery because of them, we are right. If we think the circumstances or challenges we have to face are the result of our erroneous choices and actions and they can be fixed, we also are correct. It is a choice and our attitude is what determines our results; it is entirely up to us. At the end, everything is and will be OK. Your attitude determines how you feel physically and mentally and how successful our lives become.

As long as we visualize life's challenges as bigger than us, we will not be able to overcome them, to grow nor improve. There is no problem in making mistakes, at all. All of us make mistakes, but the real problem is not being aware of them.

Awareness is the first step to solve problems and to progress. We don't have to feel useless, incapable, depressed, or failures when we make mistakes. As a matter of fact, all problems and mistakes are opportunities. We find balance by making mistakes, they give us experiences and the opportunity to improve our lives, they are part of our growth, and they are teaching us that next time we need to do it differently.

Making mistakes doesn't make us useless, incapable, worthless or failures unless we quit. When you have a problem or make a mistake, just get up and keep going; at the end of the tunnel there is always light. Don't be afraid of making mistakes. What really affects your performance are the fears and doubts, and wasting your time thinking about something that already happened.

We all are here to learn, nobody is perfect. Instead of focusing on the problems in the past, focus on the results you want. The more time you spend thinking and doing what you want, the better you feel and the closer you are to accomplishing it. Be confident! Never, never, never hesitate! Mistakes are opportunities in disguise. Making a mistake is only telling us that we need to learn something new, that it is time to change, and change is growth.

In order to grow and reach harmony, life will always put us in the place where we need to be, and as many times as we need, until we learn the lesson. If things are not going the way you want, life, through our problems, is telling us that we need to change our attitude, the way we are thinking, feeling and acting. As Albert Einstein said, "A problem can not be solved with the same mind that created it".

The only way to solve any problem is to be aware of it and understand it. So, if you want all aspects of your life to be in harmony, to change and improve, put yourself in a different environment, in a different mind frame. Educate yourself, learn as much as you can and dare to do new things. Say to yourself, "I am bigger than my problems, fear and doubts, and I have everything it takes to succeed".

Be responsible and become part of the solution. Give and don't depend on others but yourself. Face your life without fear, with confidence and don't run away from your problems, because as long as you don't solve them, they will always be there chasing you; it doesn't matter where you go. If you want to prevent, avoid and be able to solve all your problems, the confused, conflictive and poor person within you needs to die and you have to become a winner, a problems solver.

Love without thinking about it, give the best of you, appreciate what you have, live in peace, smile, and be happy regardless any circumstance.

YOU DESERVE IT!

mAmAzUe

 

 

 

Better keep the word or never do so.......

We can see a lot of people who give out plenty of offerings and promises with good things. But 90% of these promises will not happen anymore.  People in the other end of-course will be fascinated with the unforgettable offerings. This may shake their normal life too. Sometimes the whole future might be depending on these offers. These promises are like the advertisement of Hell ( Just Kidding )

We can see these types of promises among business people, higher authority of organizations and crooked people like that. But sure this is not the boundary of these promises. We can see it anywhere anytime. .

So what is the reason?? Yes, This is for some personal needs or profitable decisions. Anyway in one or other way profit is the only intension of these offers.

At last what will happen?? Here come the three different eccentric characters.

Some people consider the promises as if they were the curry leaves in curries. They will never turn to the offers and just give up after the specific need that they previously plotted, had happened. They are the very cruel faces who will not give any consideration to human feelings.

Another type will try to keep the promise, but in some point they may not be able to fulfill that. So what they will do is they will give some other offers instead of the one they have given previously. But still there is not a 100% mind to do so. They are a group who bothered about people who feels anything wrong. Gradually they will transfer to a group of people who belongs to the third category.

The third category people are the one who will never face the person to whom they have given the promise. They are cowards without a back bone. They want to get everything but do not want to lose anything. They will utilize others for their own personal benefits and will not give face to them after the fulfillment of their needs. The second category people which I have explained above gradually transforms to this category in the future.

Apparently most of the offerings will not happen in the right time, right place and in the right mode. These are my view points and there may be another face for this discussion like the two sides of a coin. So anyone can discuss their views, thoughts, experience or truths through comments.

hugs & kisses from me...

mAmAzUe.... 

Kebajikan yang tak berakhir......The actions which outlives you.....

Salam to all...these are very important tips for all of us and really, really, really if u follow the actions, they would really outlive u and u'll have a better side of life....do it and remember to do it sincerely and truthfulli...u'll definitely gain from the all the deeds....learn to appreciate and learn to accept the gratitude of others coz all these counts too!!!!

1. Berikan al-Quran pada seseorang, dan setiap dibaca, Anda mendapatkan hasanah.

Give Quran to someone and each time they read from it, you will gain hasanaat.

2. Sumbangkan kerusi roda ke hospital dan setiap orang sakit menggunakannya, Anda dapat hasanah.

Donate a wheelchair to a hospital and each time a sick person uses it, you will gain hasanaat.

3. Berkongsi bahan bacaan yang membangun dengan seseorang.

Share constructive reading material with someone.

4. Bantu mendidik seorang anak.

Help in educating a child.

5. Ajarkan seseorang sebuah do’a. Pada setiap bacaan do’a itu, anda dapat hasanah.

Teach someone to recite a dua. With each recitation, you will gain hasanaat.

6. Berkongsi CD Quran atau Do’a.

Share a dua or Quran CD.

7. Terlibat dalam pembangunan sebuah masjid.

Participate in the building of a mosque.

8. Tempatkan pendingin air di tempat umum.

Place a water cooler in a public place.

9. Tanam sebuah pohon. Setiap seseorang atau binatang berlindung di bawahnya, Anda dapat hasanah.

Plant a tree. Each time any person or an animal sits under its shade or eats from the tree, you will gain hasanaat.

10. Khabarkan ilmu ini kpd org lain. Jika orang yg mendpt pesanan ini menjalankan salah satu dari yang di atas, anda dapat hasanah sampai hari Qiamat.

Share this with someone. If one person applies any of the above you will receive your hasanaat until the Day of Judgment.

Insya’Allah.

I simply love doing all these things to others whenever I can.......

 MaMaZuE

You are wonderful

Everybody knows.....
You can't be all things to all people.
You can't do all things at once.
You can't do all things equally well.
You can't do all things better than everyone else.
Your humanity is showing just like everyone else's.

So.....
You have to find out who you are, and be that.
You have to decide what comes first, and do that.
You have to discover your strengths, and use them.
You have to learn not to compete with others,
Because no one else is in the contest of being YOU.

And then.....
You will have learned to accept your own uniqueness.
You will have learned to set priorities and make decisions.
You will have learned to live with your limitations.
You will have learned to give yourself the respect that is due.
And you'll be a most unique and happy human being.

Always believe.....
That you are a wonderful, unique person.
That you are a once in all history event.
That it's more than a right, it's your duty to be who you are.
That life is not a problem to solve, but a gift to cherish.
And you'll always be able to stay one up on what used to get you down!

mAmAzUe

Two travelling angels....please read it till the end....

ASSALAMUALAIKUM & SALAM SEJAHTERA TO ALL....

Something to ponder before u close your eyes tonite

Keep reading to the bottom of the page -- (You'll see).

Two traveling angels stopped to spend the night in the home of a wealthy family.

The family was rude and refused to let the angels stay in the mansion's guest room.

Instead the angels were given a small space in the cold basement.

As they made their bed on the hard floor, the older angel saw a hole in the wall and repaired it.

When the younger angel asked why, the older angel replied,

"Things aren't always what they seem"

The next night the pair came to rest at the house of a very poor, but very hospitable farmer and his wife.

After sharing what little food they had the couple let the angels sleep in their bed where they could have a good night's rest.

When the sun came up the next morning the angels found the farmer and his wife in tears.

Their only cow, whose milk had been their sole income, lay dead in the field.

The younger angel was infuriated and asked the older angel how could you have let this happen?

The first man had everything, yet you helped him, she accused.

The second family had little but was willing to share everything, and you let the cow die..

"Things aren't always what they seem," the older angel replied.

"When we stayed in the basement of the mansion, I noticed there was gold stored in that hole in the wall.

Since the owner was so obsessed with greed and unwilling to share his good fortune, I sealed the wall so he wouldn't find it."

"Then last night as we slept in the farmers bed, the angel of death came for his wife I gave him the cow instead.

Things aren't always what they seem."

Sometimes that is exactly what happens when things don't turn out the way they should.

If you have faith, you just need to trust that every out come is always to your advantage.

You just might not know it until some time later...

Some people come into our lives and quickly go..

Some people become friends and stay awhile...leaving beautiful footprints on our hearts... and we are never quite the same because we have made a good friend!!

Yesterday is history.

Tomorrow a mystery.

Today is a gift.

That's why it's called the present!

I think this is special...live and savour every moment... This is not a dress rehearsal!

TAKE THIS LITTLE ANGEL AND KEEP HER CLOSE TO YOU SHE IS YOUR GUARDIAN ANGEL SENT TO WATCH OVER YOU
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THIS IS A SPECIAL GUARDIAN ANGEL... SHE WILL WATCH OVER YOU FOREVER....

Right Now -

-somebody is thinking of you.

-somebody is caring about you.

-somebody misses you

-somebody wants to talk to you.

-somebody wants to be with you.

-somebody hopes you aren't in trouble.

-somebody is thankful for the support you have provided.

-somebody wants to hold your hand.

-somebody hopes everything turns out all right.

-somebody wants you to be happy.

-somebody wants you to find him/her.

-somebody is celebrating your successes.

-somebody wants to give you a gift.

-somebody thinks that you ARE a gift.

-somebody loves you.

-somebody admires your strength.

-somebody is thinking of you and smiling.

-somebody wants to be your shoulder to cry on.

SOMEBODY NEEDS YOU TO SHOW THIS TO THEM

Never take away anyone's hope.

That may be all they have.

 MaMaZuE

Attitude is everything.....Attitude changes everything...

Hello everyone...based on my last entry, i would like to continue writing about attitude...because i think attitude really is playing a vital role in our living...so, then, came an idea of sharing it all with u...Hopefully, everyone can have a change of attitude from negative to positive.....

The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, then circumstances, than failures, than successes, than what other people think, say, or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness, or skill. It will make or break a company, a family, a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. 

We cannot change our past. We cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. And so it is with you. We are in charge of our attitudes. 

Let's read this story as an inspirational beginning for all of u out there.... 


ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING

Jerry was the kind of guy you love to hate. He was always in a good mood and always had something positive to say. When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would reply, "If I were any better, I would be twins!"
He was a unique manager because he had several waiters who had followed him around from restaurant to restaurant. The reason the waiters followed Jerry was because of his attitude. He was a natural motivator. If an employee was having a bad day, Jerry was there telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation.
Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up to Jerry and asked him, "I don't get it! You can't be a positive person all of the time. How do you do it?"
Jerry replied, "Each morning I wake up and say to myself, Jerry, you have two choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or you can choose to be in a bad mood.' I choose to be in a good mood. Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or I can choose to learn from it. I choose to learn from it. Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their complaining or I can point out the positive side of life. I choose the positive side of life."
"Yeah, right, it's not that easy", I protested.
"Yes it is," Jerry said. "Life is all about choices. When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to situations. You choose how people will affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line: It's your choice how you live life."
I reflected on what Jerry said. Soon thereafter, I left the restaurant industry to start my own business. We lost touch, but often thought about him when I made a choice about life instead of reacting to it.
Several years later, I heard that Jerry did something you are never supposed to do in a restaurant business: he left the back door open one morning, and was held up at gunpoint by three armed robbers. While trying to open the safe, his hand, shaking from nervousness, slipped off the combination. The robbers panicked and shot him. Luckily, Jerry was found relatively quickly and rushed to the local trauma center.
After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, Jerry was released from the hospital with fragments of the bullets still in his body. I saw Jerry about six months after the accident. When I asked him how he was, he replied, "If I were any better, I'd be twins. Wanna see my scars?"
I declined to see his wounds, but did ask him what had gone through his mind as the robbery took place. "The first thing that went through my mind was that I should have locked the back door", Jerry replied. "Then, as I lay on the floor, I remembered that I had two choices: I could choose to live, or I could choose to die. I chose to live.
"Weren't you scared? Did you lose consciousness?", I asked.
Jerry continued, "The paramedics were great. They kept telling me I was going to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the emergency room and I saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared. In their eyes, I read, 'He's a dead man'. I knew I needed to take action."
"What did you do?", I asked.
"Well, there was a big, burly nurse shouting questions at me", said Jerry. She asked if I was allergic to anything. "Yes", I replied. The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply... I took a deep breath and yelled, "Bullets!" Over their laughter, I told them, "I am choosing to live. Operate on me as if I am alive, not dead."
Jerry lived, thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his amazing attitude. I learned from him that every day we have the choice to live fully. Attitude, after all, is everything.

Attitude is everything.  A person who has the ability to look beyond the outside of a person or what they might project....is a person who knows how to reflect upon other people's needs and know themself well.  They know how to react to people.  They do not rush to judgement on others and look honestly at any given situation and do not try to make themselves look better than everyone else.  They do not seek all of the attention....they give others a chance to shine.  These people know how to deal with a stress situation and know that all things can usually be fixed with the right frame of mind and that getting angry, upset and out of sorts does nothing to resolve an issue.  A person who has a determined mindset,  can see the bright side of all things and has sensibility to go with it; and it is evident that these types of individuals who have the right "Attitude" go further than those who believe their smarts are the best part of their life. Please note that there is nothing wrong with being highly educated but, being educated does not necessarily give one a ticket to Success.  Education must be mixed with interpersonal skills.

In our quest for the right attitude.....we must remember that our philosophy is not the only one either.  What our principles and knowledge is; is not the beginning or the end of all things.  Meaning, other people's principles and knowledge counts also and that all of us can learn something to make our life better from each other.  Yes, we can learn from the drunk on the street, if we so choose.  When we look down on the little old man lying in the street dog drunk; what put him there?  How could you possibly be there and do you have the courage to try to help the him or a person like him?  Remember; Attitude is everything.  Trying to help another soul is part of the "Attitude Is Everything."  None of us want to be there; how do we know how far we are from this awful thing or something like it?  Being thankful is part of the right attitude also and being humble and know that we are all "sinners, saved by grace" so to speak.  By the skin of our teeth we just might have missed some bad things in life. 

 -mAmAzUe-

Give and take....a little word called balance...

 

 

Assalamualaikum and a very good evening to all my fellow friends out there…

I just thought of presenting an article about “give and take” coz I think this is something that most people are lack of at present. Most of us are so possessive in a relationship …a marriage or friendship…we should be practicing this concept as to strengthen our relationship…it applies to parenting too…if we start this concept of give and take at home , then our children won’t  be so possessive and they will grow up to be a wiser person in the future…

Something we hear a lot, "Love is give and take", or "Life is give and take".

I do agree to both, but there are limits to both. There's only One person you can't outgive, and that would be our Creator. For the rest, too bad, so sad.

A good way to get someone's attention, is to give. Buying a gift for that hot little secretary might do the trick. Then she'll feel like she needs to give something back, even if it's just an email saying "Thank you".

Then, for the take part, and this is where the girls are really good at. They either take everything a guy has to offer, or they force the guy to take all the things no one else will want to take, get what I'm saying?

Yes, life is give and take. Love is give and take. Relationships are give and take. Conversations are give and take. Even most of our daily activities can be classified as give and take. But thewre's a lesson behind all this...

A little word called balance.

Well, let me explain further….

Every relationship needs give and take between two people to truly be a relationship. The term "give and take" is not new. It's a simple idea that says that to have a productive and satisfying relationship you can't just do all the taking or all the giving all the time.

Unfortunately in reality many relationships are either: "You give and I'll take" or "I'll give and you take". If you are doing all the planning of dates, paying all the expenses, sharing and repairing relationships you are giving too much. If a relationship feels like too much work on your part, you feel like you're squeezing water from a stone, or the person requires a lot of nurturing to extract even a small amount of value, you're not in a "love" relationship, you are giving too much.

When your giving is taking too much out of you and threatens to destabilize your very person, then you are trying to give more than you are capable of. If you allow yourself to be drained of energy you will have less to give to a deserving man or woman and may find yourself passing up good men and women because of the experiences of your past. If you allow one or more experiences to make you cynical, then you have given more than you were capable of and it has made you less than who you were. This is giving more than you are capable of giving. To open yourself to others is often rewarding but is only as good as the value it adds to who you are.

If you are giving because your help is needed (in sickness or crisis) then simply accept the relationship for what it is. Your giving will add value to who you are but may not translate into a relationship with that person. And if your "generosity" has strings attached (like hoping you can subtly buy his/her affections) then it's really not very generous. And don't lie to yourself it's not likely to work out. You will probably end up disappointed.

One-sided relationships have a devastating effect on your self-esteem. No matter how good your self-esteem "GIVE and GIVE" relationships have their own constraints which make having productive and satisfying relationship impossible.

My people have a saying: Who you are is related to how much you give of yourself without losing sight of who you are. Giving who you are to the extent that you empty yourself onto the laps of others only makes you insignificant and "invisible" in the relationship. And when there seems to be only one person in the relationship an disequilibrium in energy distribution happens and when that energy distribution exceeds certain limits, a state of instinctual emotional "distancing" begins to happen.

It is best to minimize the possibility of regret by making sure that you choose people capable of "give and take" relationships. My website give invaluable insight into choosing the "right" people, including separating high-potential dates from energy drainers, types of relationships that will not last long, warning signs that you may be in a relationship in which you are loving him/her more than you are being loved, how to identify who is capable of give and take relationships, etc. My desire is for all of us to be able to choose partners we can have the pleasure of "playing" with rather than against or playing for....insyaAllah...

MaMaZuE