Berapakah Nilai Seorang Perempuan Bergelar Isteri

Assalamualaikum kepada semua suami dan bakal suami.....

Hargailah isteri anda......

Mulianya seorang isteri disisi Allah...

Dan betapa berharganya wanita yang bergelar isteri ini pada keluarga, suami dan anak-anak

Rugi dan binasalah suami-suami yang tidak menghargai isteri mereka kerana isteri inilah yang akan membantu mereka di akhirat kelak.

Biarlah buruk mana isteri anda, sayangilah mereka......

Beruntungnya seorang wanita sebab dia ada rahim, oleh itu dia bekerja dengan Allah SWT...... jadi 'kilang ' manusia.

Tiap-tiap bulan dia diberi cuti tetapi bergaji penuh...

7 sehingga 15 hari sebulan dia tak wajib Solat tetapi Allah SWT anggap diwaktu itu sembahyang terbaik darinya.

Cuti bersalin juga sehingga 60 hari tapi orang2 zaman sekarang beruntung dapat 180 hr...masa time2 aku beranak dulu, dapat 40 hari jer..if nak tambah apply cuti sendiri....nasib badannnnn.....

Bila dah bersalin tu, susukanlah anak...jgn takut "kendur" atau menggelebeh pulak..

Ah yang si suami pulak, jangan lah berebut dengan bayi untuk menyusu pulak….

Cuti ini bukan cuti suka hati tapi cuti yang Allah beri sebab dia bekerja dengan Allah SWT ,

Tapi bila dah habis cuti tu.. . layanlah suami... "offer" lah pada suami ,

Nabi bersabda: berjimak dgn isteri itu pahala ...jangan buat deekkk jeee (tak peduli),

Jangan buat alasan itu dan ini pulak...….ingat tu si isteri yee!!!

Kata nak pahala lebih…

Orang lelaki tak ada cuti dari Solat.....

Semua Solat wajib baginya dari baligh sehingga habis nyawanya...

Satu lagi berita gembira untuk wanita,... Sepanjang dia mengandung

Allah SWT sentiasa mengampunkan dosanya,

Lahir saja bayi seluruh dosanya habis.

Inilah nikmat Allah SWT beri kepada wanita, jadi kenapa perlu takut nak beranak?

Marilah kita pegang kepada tali Allah SWT.

Seandainya wanita itu mati sewaktu bersalin, itu dianggap mati Syahid,

Allah SWT izinkan terus masuk Syurga.

Untuk orang bukan Islam, dia tak dapat masuk Syurga tapi Allah beri kelonggaran seksa kubur.

Untuk peringatan semua wanita yang bersuami seluruh kebaikan suaminya, semuanya isteri dapat pahala tetapi dosa-dosa suami dia tak tanggung.

Di akhirat nanti seorang wanita solehah akan terperanjat dengan pahala extra yang banyak dia terima di atas segala kebaikan suaminya yang tak disedari.

Contohnya bila dia redha suaminya pergi berjemaah di masjid atau ke majlis ilmu, bersedekah.. ganjaran Allah ke atasnya jua. .

Bila dia lihat suaminya tengah terhegeh-hegeh di titian Sirat dia tak nak masuk syurga tanpa suaminya,

jadi dia pun memberi pahalanya kepada suami untuk lepas masuk syurga.

Di dunia lagi, kalau suami dalam kesusahan isteri boleh bantu tambah lagi di akhirat.

Kalau seorang isteri asyik merungut, mulut selalu muncung terhadap suami dia tak akan dapat pahala extra ini.

Manakala suami pula mempunyai tugas-tugas berat di dalam dan di luar rumah, segala dosa-dosa anak isteri yang tak dididik dia akan tanggung ditambah lagi dengan dosa-dosa yang lain..

Dinasihatkan kepada semua wanita supaya faham akan syariat Allah SWT agar tidak derhaka denganNya.

Sesungguhnya wanita dijadikan daripada rusuk kiri lelaki.

Dia bukan dicipta dari kepala ke kaki, juga bukan dari tapak kaki.

Dia dicipta dari sebelah rusuk kiri lelaki supaya dia hampir kepada kamu (lelaki), lengan lelaki dicipta untuk mempertahankan wanita, dekat dengan hati lelaki untuk disayangi.

Woman was made from the rib of man,
She was not created from his head to top him,
Nor from his feet to be stepped upon,
She was made from his side to be close to him,
From beneath his arm to be protected by him,
Near his heart to be loved by him.

*** Ya Allah..

Mudah-mudahan aku  menjadi seorang isteri yang solehah dan terbaik untuk suamiku.....Aminnnn

mAmAzUe

Sometimes we bury hurts and pretend they did not happen......

Hi everyone...just thot of sharing this piece with u....very nice..hope all of u'll enjoy reading it...just take a minute or two !!!!

Sometimes we bury hurts and pretend they did not happen, except they can resurface every so often, or we go to visit the graveside and spend time with our hurts.

Sometimes we carry our hurts with us like a big burden and so they weigh us down.

They never let us be free, they affect how we relate to others.

BUT our awesome God is waiting to set us free from our hurts.

He is able to help us work through those hurts and how they have affected our lives.

It is a process, but freedom from the hurt is achievable.

We can move forward.

HEALED AND WHOLE:

One day I dug a little hole,

and put my hurt inside

I thought that I could just forget

I'd put it there to hide.

But that little hurt began to grow,

I covered it every day

I couldn't leave it and go on

It seemed the price I had to pay.

My joy was gone,

my heart was sad,

pain was all I knew.

My wounded soul enveloped me

Loving seemed too hard to do.

One day, while standing by my hole,

I cried to God above

And said, "If You are really there,

They say, You're a God of love!"

And just like that,

He was right there,

And just put his arms around me

He wiped away my tears,

his hurting child there was no safer place to be.

I told Him all about my hurt,

I opened up my heart

He listened to each and every word

to every sordid part.

I dug down deep and got my hurt

I brushed the dirt away

And placed it in the Master's hand

and healing came that day.

He took the blackness from my soul

and set my spirit FREE!

Something beautiful began to grow

where the hurt used to be.

And when I look at what has grown

Out of my tears and pain

I remember every day

to give my hurts to GOD

And never bury them again.

Have faith in our loving God.

There is nothing in this world

too big for our LORD

Author Unknown

mAmAzUe

Don't be afraid of making mistakes..Problems? No Problems!!!!!

Peace to all....

An interesting article about LIFE IS GREAT......

Life is so great, full of blessings and opportunities. Live in peace and be happy; regardless of whatever happens to you or around you, no problem!

As long as we live, everybody goes through circumstances; some of these circumstances are called problems by some people. If we think we have problems and that we will live in misery because of them, we are right. If we think the circumstances or challenges we have to face are the result of our erroneous choices and actions and they can be fixed, we also are correct. It is a choice and our attitude is what determines our results; it is entirely up to us. At the end, everything is and will be OK. Your attitude determines how you feel physically and mentally and how successful our lives become.

As long as we visualize life's challenges as bigger than us, we will not be able to overcome them, to grow nor improve. There is no problem in making mistakes, at all. All of us make mistakes, but the real problem is not being aware of them.

Awareness is the first step to solve problems and to progress. We don't have to feel useless, incapable, depressed, or failures when we make mistakes. As a matter of fact, all problems and mistakes are opportunities. We find balance by making mistakes, they give us experiences and the opportunity to improve our lives, they are part of our growth, and they are teaching us that next time we need to do it differently.

Making mistakes doesn't make us useless, incapable, worthless or failures unless we quit. When you have a problem or make a mistake, just get up and keep going; at the end of the tunnel there is always light. Don't be afraid of making mistakes. What really affects your performance are the fears and doubts, and wasting your time thinking about something that already happened.

We all are here to learn, nobody is perfect. Instead of focusing on the problems in the past, focus on the results you want. The more time you spend thinking and doing what you want, the better you feel and the closer you are to accomplishing it. Be confident! Never, never, never hesitate! Mistakes are opportunities in disguise. Making a mistake is only telling us that we need to learn something new, that it is time to change, and change is growth.

In order to grow and reach harmony, life will always put us in the place where we need to be, and as many times as we need, until we learn the lesson. If things are not going the way you want, life, through our problems, is telling us that we need to change our attitude, the way we are thinking, feeling and acting. As Albert Einstein said, "A problem can not be solved with the same mind that created it".

The only way to solve any problem is to be aware of it and understand it. So, if you want all aspects of your life to be in harmony, to change and improve, put yourself in a different environment, in a different mind frame. Educate yourself, learn as much as you can and dare to do new things. Say to yourself, "I am bigger than my problems, fear and doubts, and I have everything it takes to succeed".

Be responsible and become part of the solution. Give and don't depend on others but yourself. Face your life without fear, with confidence and don't run away from your problems, because as long as you don't solve them, they will always be there chasing you; it doesn't matter where you go. If you want to prevent, avoid and be able to solve all your problems, the confused, conflictive and poor person within you needs to die and you have to become a winner, a problems solver.

Love without thinking about it, give the best of you, appreciate what you have, live in peace, smile, and be happy regardless any circumstance.

YOU DESERVE IT!

mAmAzUe

 

 

 

Better keep the word or never do so.......

We can see a lot of people who give out plenty of offerings and promises with good things. But 90% of these promises will not happen anymore.  People in the other end of-course will be fascinated with the unforgettable offerings. This may shake their normal life too. Sometimes the whole future might be depending on these offers. These promises are like the advertisement of Hell ( Just Kidding )

We can see these types of promises among business people, higher authority of organizations and crooked people like that. But sure this is not the boundary of these promises. We can see it anywhere anytime. .

So what is the reason?? Yes, This is for some personal needs or profitable decisions. Anyway in one or other way profit is the only intension of these offers.

At last what will happen?? Here come the three different eccentric characters.

Some people consider the promises as if they were the curry leaves in curries. They will never turn to the offers and just give up after the specific need that they previously plotted, had happened. They are the very cruel faces who will not give any consideration to human feelings.

Another type will try to keep the promise, but in some point they may not be able to fulfill that. So what they will do is they will give some other offers instead of the one they have given previously. But still there is not a 100% mind to do so. They are a group who bothered about people who feels anything wrong. Gradually they will transfer to a group of people who belongs to the third category.

The third category people are the one who will never face the person to whom they have given the promise. They are cowards without a back bone. They want to get everything but do not want to lose anything. They will utilize others for their own personal benefits and will not give face to them after the fulfillment of their needs. The second category people which I have explained above gradually transforms to this category in the future.

Apparently most of the offerings will not happen in the right time, right place and in the right mode. These are my view points and there may be another face for this discussion like the two sides of a coin. So anyone can discuss their views, thoughts, experience or truths through comments.

hugs & kisses from me...

mAmAzUe.... 

Kebajikan yang tak berakhir......The actions which outlives you.....

Salam to all...these are very important tips for all of us and really, really, really if u follow the actions, they would really outlive u and u'll have a better side of life....do it and remember to do it sincerely and truthfulli...u'll definitely gain from the all the deeds....learn to appreciate and learn to accept the gratitude of others coz all these counts too!!!!

1. Berikan al-Quran pada seseorang, dan setiap dibaca, Anda mendapatkan hasanah.

Give Quran to someone and each time they read from it, you will gain hasanaat.

2. Sumbangkan kerusi roda ke hospital dan setiap orang sakit menggunakannya, Anda dapat hasanah.

Donate a wheelchair to a hospital and each time a sick person uses it, you will gain hasanaat.

3. Berkongsi bahan bacaan yang membangun dengan seseorang.

Share constructive reading material with someone.

4. Bantu mendidik seorang anak.

Help in educating a child.

5. Ajarkan seseorang sebuah do’a. Pada setiap bacaan do’a itu, anda dapat hasanah.

Teach someone to recite a dua. With each recitation, you will gain hasanaat.

6. Berkongsi CD Quran atau Do’a.

Share a dua or Quran CD.

7. Terlibat dalam pembangunan sebuah masjid.

Participate in the building of a mosque.

8. Tempatkan pendingin air di tempat umum.

Place a water cooler in a public place.

9. Tanam sebuah pohon. Setiap seseorang atau binatang berlindung di bawahnya, Anda dapat hasanah.

Plant a tree. Each time any person or an animal sits under its shade or eats from the tree, you will gain hasanaat.

10. Khabarkan ilmu ini kpd org lain. Jika orang yg mendpt pesanan ini menjalankan salah satu dari yang di atas, anda dapat hasanah sampai hari Qiamat.

Share this with someone. If one person applies any of the above you will receive your hasanaat until the Day of Judgment.

Insya’Allah.

I simply love doing all these things to others whenever I can.......

 MaMaZuE

Sebuah cerita tauladan yang menarik.....

 Assalamualaikum kepada semua.....salam sejahtera....

Memang rasanya tidak berblog ni sebab kesempitan masa.....tp nak jugak share satu cerita pada hari ini...a very good one to teach each and everyone of us about life....it has a good moral & hope everybody boleh dapat impact dari cerita ini.....baca dan renungkan sendiri.....

Alkisahnya, pada suatu hari, ada seorang profesor yang sedang membuat kajian tentang lautan menumpang sebuah sampan. Pendayung sampan itu adalah seorang tua yang begitu pendiam. Profesor itu memang mencari pendayung sampan yang pendiam agar tidak banyak bertanya ketika dia sedang membuat kajian.

Dengan begitu tekun si profesor itu membuat kajiannya. Diambilnya sedikit air laut dengan tabung uji kemudian digoyang-goyang, selepas itu dia menulis sesuatu di dalam buku. Berjam-jam lamanya Profesor itu membuat kajian dengan tekun sekali.

Pendayung sampan itu mendongak ke langit. Berdasarkan pengalamannya dia berkata dalam hati, "Hmm... Pasti ribut melanda sebentar lagi..."

"OK, semua sudah siap, mari kita balik ke darat," kata profesor itu. Pendayung sampan itu akur dan mula memusingkan sampannya ke arah pantai. Hanya dalam perjalanan pulang itu barulah profesor itu menegur si pendayung sampan.

"Kamu dah lama kerja mendayung sampan?" tanya profesor itu.

"Hampir seumur hidup saya," jawab si pendayung sampan itu dengan ringkas.

"Seumur hidup kamu?" tanya profesor itu lagi.

"Ya."

"Jadi kamu tak tahu perkara-perkara lain selain daripada mendayung sampan?"

Pendayung sampan itu hanya menggelengkan kepalanya. Masih tidak berpuas hati, profssor itu bertanya lagi, "Kamu tahu geografi?"

Pendayung sampan itu menggelengkan kepala.

"Kalau macam ni, kamu dah kehilangan 25% daripada usia kamu. Kamu tahu biologi?"

Pendayung sampan itu menggelengkan kepalanya lagi.

"Kasihan... Kamu dah kehilangan 50% usia kamu. Kamu tahu fizik?" profesor itu masih lagi bertanya.

Seperti tadi, pendayung sampan itu hanya menggelengkan kepala.

"Kalau begini, kasihan... Kamu sudah kehilangan 75% daripada usia kamu.Malang sungguh nasib kamu, semuanya tak tahu. Seluruh usia kamu dihabiskan sebagai pendayung sampan," kata profesor itu dengan nada mengejek dan angkuh. Pendayung sampan itu hanya berdiam diri.

Selang beberapa minit kemudian, tiba-tiba hujan turun. Tiba-tiba saja datang ombak besar. Sampan itu dilambung ombak besar dan terbalik.Profesor dan pendayung sampan itu terpelanting. Sempat pula si pendayung sampan itu bertanya kepada si profesor, "Kamu tahu berenang?"

Profesor itu menggelengkan kepala.

"Kalau macam ini, kamu dah kehilangan 100% nyawa kamu," kata si pendayung sampan sambil berenang menuju ke pantai.

Iktibar Cerita:

Dalam hidup ini IQ yang tinggi belum tentu boleh menjamin kehidupan.

Tak guna kita pandai dan tahu banyak perkara jika tak tahu perkara-perkara penting dalam hidup. Adakalanya orang yang kita sangka bodoh itu rupanya lebih berjaya daripada kita. Dia mungkin bodoh dalam bidang yang tidak ada kena mengena dengan kerjayanya, tetapi "MASTER" dalam bidang yang diceburi.

Hidup ini singkat. Jadi, tanyalah pada diri sendiri: Untuk apakah ilmu yang dikumpulkan jika bukan untuk digunakan dan boleh digunakan?

MaMaZuE

You are wonderful

Everybody knows.....
You can't be all things to all people.
You can't do all things at once.
You can't do all things equally well.
You can't do all things better than everyone else.
Your humanity is showing just like everyone else's.

So.....
You have to find out who you are, and be that.
You have to decide what comes first, and do that.
You have to discover your strengths, and use them.
You have to learn not to compete with others,
Because no one else is in the contest of being YOU.

And then.....
You will have learned to accept your own uniqueness.
You will have learned to set priorities and make decisions.
You will have learned to live with your limitations.
You will have learned to give yourself the respect that is due.
And you'll be a most unique and happy human being.

Always believe.....
That you are a wonderful, unique person.
That you are a once in all history event.
That it's more than a right, it's your duty to be who you are.
That life is not a problem to solve, but a gift to cherish.
And you'll always be able to stay one up on what used to get you down!

mAmAzUe