My Family...My Life

My Family...My Life

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Deep Thinking......







Have you ever thought about the fact that you did not exist before you were conceived and then born into the world and that you have come into existence from mere nothingness?

Have you ever thought about how the flowers you see in your living room everyday come out of pitch black, muddy soil with fragrant smells and are as colorful as they are?

Have you ever thought about how mosquitoes, which irritatingly fly around you, move their wings so fast that we are unable to see them?

Have you ever thought about how the peels of fruits such as bananas, watermelons, melons and oranges serve as wrappings of high quality, and how the fruits are packed in these wrappings so that they maintain their taste and fragrance?

Have you ever thought about the possibility that while you are asleep a sudden earthquake could raze your home, your office, and your city to the ground and that in a few seconds you could lose everything of the world you possess?

Have you ever thought of how your life passes away very quickly, and that you will grow old and become weak, and slowly lose your beauty, health and strength?

Have you ever thought about how one day you will find the angels of death appointed by God before you and that you will then leave this world?

Well, have you ever thought about why people are so attached to a world from which they will soon depart when what they basically need is to strive for the hereafter?

Man is a being whom God furnishes with the faculty of thought. Yet, most people do not use this very important faculty as they should. In fact, some people almost never think.

In truth, each person possesses a capacity for thought of which even he himself is unaware. Once man begins to use this capacity, facts he has not been able to realise until that very moment begin to be uncovered for him. The deeper he goes in reflection, the more his capacity to think improves, and this is possible for everyone. One just has to realise that one needs to reflect and then to strive hard.

Someone who does not think will remain totally distant from truths and lead his life in self-deception and error. As a result, he will not grasp the purpose of the creation of the world, and the reason for his existence on the earth. Yet, God has created everything with a purpose. This fact is stated in the Qur'an as follows:

We did not create the heavens and the earth and everything between them as a game. We did not create them except with truth but most of them do not know it. Did you suppose that We created you for amusement and that you would not return to Us? 

Therefore, each person needs to ponder the purpose of creation, first as it concerns him himself, and then as it pertains to everything he sees in the universe and every event he experiences throughout his life. Someone who does not think, will understand the facts only after he dies, when he gives account before God, but then it will be too late. God says in the Qur'an that on the day of account, everybody will think and see the truth:

That day the devils playground is produced, that day man will remember; but how will the remembrance help him? He will say, "Oh! If only I had prepared in advance for this life of mine!" 

The truth can be told to a person in many different ways; it can be shown by the use of details, pieces of evidence and by every means. Yet, if this person does not think over this truth on his own, sincerely and honestly with the purpose of comprehending the truth, all these efforts are useless. For this reason, when the messengers of God communicated the message to their people, they told them the truth clearly and then summoned them to think.

While God has given us a chance in the life of this world to reflect and derive conclusions from our reflections, to see the truth will bring us great gain in our life in the hereafter. For this reason, God has summoned all people, through His prophets and books, to reflect on their creation and on the creation of the universe:

Have they not reflected within themselves? God did not create the heavens and the earth and everything between them except with truth and for a fixed term. Yet many people reject the meeting with their God. 

A man who reflects grasps the secrets of God's creation, the truth of the life of this world, the existence of the devils playground and paradise, and the inner truth of matters. He gets a deeper understanding of the importance of being a person with whom God is pleased, and so he lives religion as is its due, recognizes God's attributes in everything he sees, and begins to think not according to what the majority of people demand but as God commands. As a result, he takes pleasure from beauty much more than others do, and does not suffer distress from baseless misapprehensions and worldly greed.

These are only a few of the beautiful things a person who thinks will gain in the world. The gain in the hereafter of someone who always finds the truth by thinking, is the love, approval, mercy and the paradise of our God, which are above everything else.


.....MaMaZuE.....

Tuesday, February 22, 2011

How's your mood today????






Everyday, i thought of writing something in this blog...just thought of filling up the gap...
Sometimes, i asked myself "WHY?" well, nothing but just thought of spraying my thoughts on at least a topic a day...

Then, I asked myself again," Will it be forever or will it just be a matter of time? ", well, this depends on my mood..

Talking about mood, i am a plain human being with all sorts of moods...happy,excitement, overwhelmed, anger, frustrated, sulky, bored, depressed & bla bla bla...

Being happy, is when everything is perfect...people around you makes u smile, no problems in the office, cases ended early, loads of work but enjoyable, meeting nice people and received no complains from the bosses... and definitely when the weekend is approaching..ooo la la...

Nevertheless, in the midst of your happiness, something bad can happen at any time of the day....

Everyone gets into a big ol’ bad mood sometimes. I’m talking about the kind of mood that throws a spanner in the works, has you fuming at every little thing and threatens to ruin a perfectly good day.
Sometimes these moods happen just when you don’t want them to and they can get in the way of doing what you want to do in the way that you want to do it. 

The mood changing from happy to bad at an instant happens to everyone...
So, how do you cope??? As for me, my moods switched on & off very fast...i can be happy and i can be in bad mood for a while but the bad mood won't last if somebody cheer me up...

Unfortunately, there are those would live in a bad mood whereas there are factors that can heal them as to make their life happy although things are bad due to bad health, bad relationship, marital problems,overworked and many others...

When you’re in a bad mood it’s easy to look for things to fuel that bad mood or reinforce it. Why? Because you want to feel like your bad mood is valid, so you look for things to validate it and make it right.
Break that habit by doing the opposite, no matter how strange it might feel. Watch a funny movie, play your favourite song, go for a walk in your local park, grab a coffee and a slice of pie in that great coffee shop. Do something that feels good and puts a smile on your face, and your bad mood will be history....of course, it can just ease your mood...


The only worries that i have is when i'm in a bad mood over some matters, there will be different perception from certain people whereby they thought i am having grudges towards him or her...whereas it's nothing in related to them...it's only that sometimes, i don't feel like talking at that time...moodless...what do u expect?? I would rather concentrate on something that i like and i never want anybody to disturb me until i'm relieved from that kind of mood... It's not proper anyway but that's the BEST thing i can do...of coz, it's not for long...my mood can change at a glimpse of time...

No doubt, i am a cheerful person...i think those people  around me or knows me well would definitely agree with this statement...ha ha ha.... very outspoken indeed but the truth is in it for sure...to me, there is always a solution for everything so there's no need to be so sulky for long...cheer up is better than being down for the the rest the day coz it will spoil other people's mood too....

Last but not least, life is a choice..It is your life..choose consciously..choose wisely..choose honestly, choose HAPPINESS

Live Life

Life is crazy,
and totally unpredictable...
It's going to push you over,
kick you while you're down
and hit you when you try to get back up.
Not everything can beat you.
Things are going to change you,
But you get to choose which ones you let change you.
Listen to your heart,
Follow your dreams,
And let no one tell you what you're capable of.
Push the limits,
Bend the rules,
And enjoy every minute of it.
Laugh at everything,
Live for as long as you can.
Love all,
But trust none.
Believe in yourself,
And never lose
faith in others
Settle for nothing but only the best,
And give 110% in everything you do.
Take risks,
Live on the edge,
Yet stay safe,
And cherish every moment of it.
Life is a gift,
Appreciate all the rewards,
And jump on every opportunity.
Not everyone's going to love you
But who needs them anyways.
Challenge everything,
And fight for what you believe.
Back down to nothing,
But give in to the little things in life,
After all, that is what makes you.
Forget the unnecessary,
But remember everything,
Bring it with you everywhere you go.
Learn something new,
And appreciate criticism.
Hate nothing,
But dislike what you want.
Never forget where you came from,
And always remember where you are going.
Live Life to its fullest,
And have a reason for everything,
Even if it's totally insane.
Find Your purpose in life,
and Live it!

mAmAzUe


Monday, February 21, 2011

Very funny & is good to release tensions.......

kills my boredom.....
tonight, did some homework and maybe kena tidur awal kot.....

so, folks, bacalah the jokes below and have some fun giggling...
  
 Prospective Employer to Applicant: 'So why did you leave your previous job?'
 Applicant: ' The company relocated and they did not tell me where!'
 ________________________________________________________________

 Wife: 'Sir, I would like to call on my husband who left me and brought all our five kids with him.'
 Radio Host: 'Ok, go ahead!'
 Wife: 'Sweetheart, please return back all the kids, actually only one of them is yours.'
 _______________________________________________________________

 Hello! I'm here again. My mind is all muddled up. I just want to ask something. I know
 that you will be able to help me out. Is BIRDS FLU the past tense of BIRDS FLY?
 _______________________________________________________________

You were riding a bus, when you suddenly fart. Luckily the music is very loud. Every time you farted, you timed it with the music.
 When you were going down the bus, everybody were throwing dagger looks at you, and you suddenly realized . . . .
that you have your MP3 player on your ears !

 ______________________________________________________________

 WIFE: It's a miracle! You came home early.
 HUSBAND: I just obeyed what my boss told me to do. He said: 'GO TO HELL',
 that's why I came home early.
 _______________________________________________________________

 1st night grandma wore a see-thru dress, grandpa didn't react...
 2nd night grandma wore t-back, grandpa still didn't react...
 3rd night grandma all naked, grandpa said 'what is that you are wearing,
 it's all crumpled!!'
 _______________________________________________________________

 John: it's my wife's birthday
 Peter: what's your gift to her?
 John: I asked her what she wanted
 Peter: what did she said?
 J: anything, as long a there is a DIAMOND.
 P: what did you gave her?
 J: playing cards
 ________________________________________________________________

Teacher: We are descendants of Adam and Eve!
 Student: That's not true! My dad said we are descendants of an Ape!
 Teacher: We are not talking about your FAMILY! <



The Moment you are in Tension
You will lose your Attention
Then you are in total Confusion
And you will feel Irritation
Then you will spoil personal 
Relation
Ultimately, you won't get 
Co - Operation
Then you will turn things into 
Complication
Then your blood pressure may raise Caution
And you may have to take Medication 

Instead, understand the 
Situation
And try to think about the 
Solution
Many problems will be solved by Discussion
This will work out better in your Profession
Don't think it's my free 
Suggestion
It's only for your 
Prevention
If you understand my Intention
You will never come again to 
Tension


 MaMaZuE